perfect warning song. lyrics to remain in your mind when dating a narc/socio:
I had a dream This one I feel the need to mention I was happy for awhile And I stopped being scared and ashamed To say what’s on my mind But you thought I’d change after awhile And said “you’d better treat me different or else” “Or else” seems like a stupid fucking thing to say to someone like me Someone like me Wow, wow, wow Wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow…
Don’t be surprised I can look you in the eye It’s hard to take you serious when you take me inside
I’m worse Than what you think you’d catch from me Complicated’s understated Did you stop and take a look at who you fell in love with?
It doesn’t matter How many times I say it It never gets old That’s why I have to say Wow, wow, wow
It doesn’t matter if you’re going to come or just going I never wanted you to come here anyway There’s a word that’s like you Because it can be a noun, a verb, a exclamation, or the thing I say
When something is unbelievable When I’m not able to believe how unbelievably unbelievable That you believe you could not be leave-able That’s when I have to say Wow, wow, wow
what do socios have against goths? could someone please explain? is it the attempt at being visually screaming that they are narcs/socios? are there empath goths?
"A study published on the British Medical Journal concluded that "identification as belonging to the Goth subculture [at some point on their lives] was the best predictor of self harm and attempted suicide [among young teens]", and that it was most possibly due to a selection mechanism (persons that wanted to harm themselves later identified as goths, thus raising the percentage of those persons who identify as goths). The study was based on a sample of 15 teenagers who identified as goths, of which 8 had self-harmed by any method, 7 had self-harmed by cutting, scratching or scoring, and 7 had attempted suicide. The authors held that most self-harm by teens was done before joining the subculture, and that joining the subculture would actually protect them and help them deal with distress in their lives.
The authors insisted on the study being based on small numbers and on the need of replication to confirm the results. The study was criticized for using a small sample of goth teens and not taking into account other influences and differences between different types of goth."
A California woman stabbed repeatedly by her then-boyfriend, a comedic Hollywood actor, on Friday described his courtroom antics explaining his violence as "very surreal and bizarre" -- and, above all, insincere. "In his testimony, he stated that it was the knife that did it, and he stated this repeatedly,
i don't buy any of the following bullshit... i hate seeing shiny jewelry on guys. aearienne, medusa, grace, notme... what do you all think? is this man a narc, or a gold digger? UKan, any decorations on you? TNP? PMS?
I refuse to go out with a man wearing gold bracelet or stoned rings. gold chain necklace somewhat hidden inside would work.
"Nothing gets a man noticed more than a little bling! Women love a man comfortable enough to wear jewelry. It gives an air of confidence, sophistication and knowledge of fine things. Women have always loved to have and wear nice jewelry and seeing a man confident enough in his masculinity to wear a men's gold bracelet or men's gold ring will instantly communicate a nice vibe to a woman glancing his way.
Jewelry on a man also shows that he is capable of recognizing nice things for himself and women like that trait in others. Since women are more likely to be nurturing, it is always an attractive trait for a man to show that he knows how to pick out nice things for himself. Most women do not like having to help men pick out their attire and fashion accents. When a man wears jewelry, he instantly communicates his ability look nice on his own.
There are many types of jewelry items available for men to choose from such as rings, bracelets, and necklaces. Men can add stones to the items. Birthstones are a popular choice for a stone to add to a ring. It is a nice conversation piece as well.
As women cast their eyes on a crowd of men, they will instantly notice the man that has shown the attention to detail of adding jewelry to his outfit. Jewelry can be worn with business attire or casual clothing.
The addition of jewelry to casual clothing gets even more attention as the items tend to really stand out and be noticed. A men's gold bracelet with a matching men's gold ring will definitely have women taking notice, sometimes it's the little things that make a lasting impression."
yes, clear separation between narcissism and npd. former are enjoying themselves without realizing how others mock them. the latter are abusing and killing the objects of their envy. all in all it's best to be subtle about narcissistic traits even when mild. they close doors when not tasteful.
When Marilyn Manson first burst forth the entire goth scene collectively cringed. I was a punk babygoth in the 90s and Manson was not particularly accepted by the old school goths, fans were referred to as mansonites and the band was thought of as a goth influenced industrial act.
Most of the goths I've known well are pretty successful and interesting and well adjusted. One here owns a bike shop, another friend is an animator/director and singer/songwriter who has more in common with NPD than "woe is me". The rest are assorted graphic designers or IT nerds. (I'm well aware that there are many pathetic specimens, however, this is true of any subculture and not true of the people I've been close to)
I've been involved with about a half-dozen guys who cut themselves and NONE of them were goth or even easy to place as not totally mainstream based on their appearance aesthetically(when wearing long sleeves). call them pussies if you like, but all of them could/can withstand unbelievable amounts of pain and discomfort without obvious distress or complaining.
When I lived in a much bigger city and there was a much larger goth scene the people I knew were journalists, in fashion, comedians, hairdressers, musicians and other assorted professions. Other than the trappings they didn't seem all that different than anyone else except perhaps more introspective. though I'd say that I notice (in retrospect) that there may have been a higher than usual amount of socios or sociopathic behavior.
I think the reason why narcissists/sociopaths dislike rockers and other losers who are similar is because they are constantly underestimating others, i had a narcissist friend one, i would be walking down the block with this guy and I'd be like "did you see the size of his arms, he'd kick the shit out of you" and my narc friend would tell me to shut the fuck up "If i joined a gym, I'd be much fucking bigger than this fag, I'd beat the shit out of him too"
a gold cross sticking out of a black mock top, a thick gold bracelet, a gold diamond covered ring. i mean, seriously, notable, can you see that becoming a man?
from ehow: what jewelry an irish man wear to show his pride?
Anon, i'm quite indifferent about jewelry on men. It's quite nice if something has sentimental value to them. But, it's not something that grabs me. (Anon, 8.50, i sort of see your point). Bad hair is the worst turn-off for me though - overly-styled etc. Ugh.
And I don't get the goth thing at all. seems like a lot of the women here are/were goths. I think i must be anti-goth. lol.
I don't like jewelry on men. Except a nice watch and that's it. I like the boots they wear!! Red Wing boots are cool! I like a go t too. I’m anti goth too Notme but maybe that's my age. And wtf is that music? I can’t even call that music…BLA.
c'mon now. complimenting a person (unless excessively) is not a socio trait. guys need a little attention too, see the children in them, so cute. like UKan. don't you see the baby in UKan? little rascal?
I'm so bored, not knowing what to do w myself... what are you doing?
after goth listened to some vivaldi, cleansed my soul.
I've seen plenty of city "pussy" goths. I think the oddest bit were the country goths I saw in the San Joaquin Valley... Loud, obnoxious, cynical and sadistic. Not the kind of people you really wanted to cross. Enough goth to stand out, and enough country to be crazy. Definitely some violent predators in that mix. I doubt that's how they all were in that town, just the ones that went to a school where I was at for a few months.
I listen to literally everything, genre-wise. There's good music everywhere. I've data-mined enough to know that. I also know taste is person to person, but I have no qualms on calling your song the steaming pile of shit that it is.
At first I thought this was going to be that one WoW video where that one guild member goes insane and rogue and goes in to attack without waiting for everyone else. But instead I get.....Marylin Mason?
Really?
Manson is to Goth as Green Day is to Punk. Bullshit for children.
Not a fan of men in make up. Some eyeliner is okay, but only sometimes under the right circumstances.
I dated this guy once, he was an Adonis, like the epitome of godly good looks to an insane crazy out-of-this-world beyond-model level, but he couldn't leave the house without putting foundation on and he plucked his eyebrows to hell. He mostly wore womens clothing (not drag, just more 70s man style). He had pictures of himself all over his room. A recluse addicted to an Adderall and weed routine. Only dated older women. Talked like a normal person but wrote in the most pretentious style I've ever seen, like he thought he was Byron or some shit. He was not goth, just... Oedipal, I guess.
Grace- the stuff most of the goths I know listen to is not that new. Joy Division, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Bauhaus, stuff like that. Proto-goth music. Manson is probably.....3rd wave goth. Like Medusa says..... kid stuff.
I work in the fashion/beauty industry, and never felt married to one scene/look, so I have run the gamut of punk/goth/rockabilly for a long time. Though I have toned it down as I've gotten older I'm very heavily tattooed and generally have some unnatural haircolor, so I'm easily identified at sub-culture-ish. Though I tend to prefer a librarian-in-fishnets look these days...
Metallica? really? ugh. I felt like of all the bands ever they alienated their fans with all that crud. Did you see that horrible movie with them weeping and going to therapy? I did recently go to see Anthrax, Megadeth and Slayer, though.
Lol - I wear normal clothes, and always have, generally i look down on goths, and punks, even heavily tattooed people.
It's funny with those sorts of people, they claim its just a "style" and it doesn't define them as a person, once you get to know these idiots, you find that was all bullshit, they really are outcasts.
I still like the old Metallica stuff. But I'm more into the doom sludgey stuff these days. Sleep, YOB, stuff like that.
Anon, I started dating the guy with the intent to use him, sort of. I was trying to be the type of person who goes off and fucks someone after being fucked over (which I'm not, at all). I saw no future in it and I wasn't really attracted to him. But I had this logic going where I was all "well he's really good-looking so I should want to fuck him, right?"
But I guess I didn't really so the whole thing faded quickly. In large part because we were each unimpressed with each other's music. He was all jangle-jangle-lesbian-Smiths, I was all rawr-death-isolation.
goths want to be different. to achieve this they dress the same.
type "shibuya bridge goth" into google image for a laugh. i've seen some interesting get-up on people there - and they hang out there just to show off how much they dare to be different. they don't get that they are showing off to the very people who's opinion they claim not to care about. if there were a socio vote about goths i would vote to be apathetic to them - they are seeking external validation just like the 'normal' empaths.
I'm getting Spider Man riding a unicorn, throwing webs and covering everything but the girly parts of naked ladies on my back. It'll be epic.
Kidding.
I've been thinking about a few tats here and there, but have been too apathetic about it. I actually almost went out and got one today, but got distracted and get a new leather jacket instead.
These days it seems either people who have tattoos "look like everyone else" or "have problems"(with the implications that they have problems to a greater degree than the public at large) I just think it's funny that these are the top 2 statements about being heavily tattooed. It cannot be both.
I have two tatoos and they are both from things I overcame and survived. We call people a 'tatoo' when they blast themselves with their block all over their body, but you can see their fear in their eyes. Tatoos to me, like scars, are memories
That's a good way of thinking about them UKan. I just need to do something radical with myself. I feel myself changing in some way and this just makes sense to me.
You don't have a name we took it from you worm. Your impersonations are retarded. Get something going if you're going to play a game or continue to look as dumb as you ever have.
Hey Grace, I'm under 30, (I think that's a bit obvious, lol).
Notme. haha. Prick. Actually i have no tatoos but wanted to get one a couple of years ago. It was gonna be a line from one of my poems. (I know, what did you expect? hehe) I still haven't done it, like Notable I get apathetic once the obsession is over, but I'd still like it - maybe under my neck at the back. I love the owl one Grace, I've always found owls so beautiful!
But personally, i'd never do an image. LOL, the reason I thought i'd get one on my back is so that i can forget it's there, otherwise, I know i'd grow sick of it! "they are both from things I overcame and survived." Ukan, that's exactly how I saw it. I never had any interest in tatoos before then. I find myself admiring men's tatoos. They're kind of like scars, which are always appealing to me. The narc I knew had his first name in mahusive letters on his back! red flag?
I was just curious Notme. I'm over thirty, not by much but I feel so old when I come in here and blog. I'm just feeling lonely I think so everything seems better than what's going on in my life. And I feel even worse that I feel this way about this place..lol.
why do you feel that? People here are a mix in terms of age. I just happen to be quite immature. I feel either 15 or 90. Nothing really in between! lol. It doesn't mean anything. And you certainly don't come across as out of place or anything. (plus, 30s are the new 20s, haven't you heard?)
But occasionally, the trolls really are about 12. :)
From how much you talk about being old I thought you were 60. Peoples view of you comes a lot from the way you feel about yourself. When you are lonely people will leave you that way. Nobody likes lonely people, because people are attracted toward positivity not negativity. A lot of times people self impose their own isolation. Everyday living like that is another wasted day in a short life. Pretend you have one year to live and live this entire year like that. You will see a major difference.
I know I have isolated myself and I think I’ve developed a major trust issue with men now. And to top it all off I don’t know if I trust myself to be smart enough around them. I’m fine with other people and I’ve done so well in school, work and my kid is good. So I have no real problems. Also, I think I have to make different choices in men too. I need a nerd!!
So hot out of the box Can we pick up the pace Turn it up, heat it up I need to be entertained Push the limit, are you with it? Baby don't be afraid Imma hurt you real good baby
Let's go it's my show, baby, do what I say Don't trip off the glitz that I'm gonna display I told you, Imma hold ya down until you're amazed Give it to ya til you're screamin' my name
No escaping when I start Once I'm in I own your heart There's no way to ring the alarm So hold on until it's over
Oh! Do you know what you got into Can you handle what I'm 'bout to do 'Cause it's about to get rough for you I'm here for your entertainment
Oh! I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet You thought an angel swept you off your feet But I'm about to turn up the heat I'm here for your entertainment
'Sall right You'll be fine Baby I'm in control Take the pain Take the pleasure I'm the master of both Close your eyes, not your mind Let me into your soul
No escaping when I start Once I'm in I own your heart There's no way to ring the alarm So hold on 'til it's over
Oh! Do you know what you got into Can you handle what I am about to do 'Cause it's about to get rough for you I'm here for your entertainment
Oh I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet You thought an angel swept you off your feet But I'm about to turn up the heat I'm here for your entertainment
Oh Do you like what you see? Oh Let me entertain ya 'til you scream
Oh! Do you know what you got into Can you handle what I am about to do 'Cause it's about to get rough for you I'm here for your entertainment
Oh! I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet You thought an angel swept you off your feet But I'm about to turn up the heat I'm here for your entertainment
I woke up with a crisis that couldve costed me a lot of money. I ended finding a solution to the problem, while incidently putting a competitor out of business. It was a blessing in disguise. That was my afternoon. I made a enemy that has been bugging me grovel. He was a really arrogant, that was the best part. People told me how amazing I was the whole night boosting my already inflated ego. I got all the employees sandwiches from a shop around the corner, and now they believe I am the best thing that's happened to the community. That was my night. I'm floating home now.
This tourist from england came in and saw this whole racket of a club, it was hilarious. Here I am doing shit that's prohibited out in the open in a suit with my girlfriend on the couch playing scrabble on her phone and a bodyguard. Meanwhile all around us is pure chaos. Terrible music that only these people can love, half naked women, half naked men, and people fucking in the corner. He turned to me and told me "This is insane, how is this allowed." I toldem welcome to *my country deleted*
now, take the scene you created and instead of an english tourist imagine an english boy scout leader bringing 20 boy scouts in the rage of 10-14 into that scene. add some shows on a stage and add audience participation. take one of the kids onto stage to interact with two naked boys, except after one minute one of the naked women stopping the show, screaming to the audience and demanding these boys to be out of there.
My bodyguard caught pneumonia and had to take antibiotics. He told me that he got diahrea from it. Since I had no reaction from that comment he told me he had a 'long story' for me. I toldem I didn't want to know. He told me that when he went to the car to get his water he felt it coming on him, so he stopped and caught himself. Then he reached in his car and it almost went down so he dropped down and handled it in the street. Fortunatly he had napkins and hand santitizer in the car. We were looking for people with shit on their shoe all night.
Yah, I sleep. I'm not in your timezone, and I have odd hours. I should be tired right now but I'm still high off life. I wanted to spread my positivity to this sometimes depressing blog.
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Fucking goths.
ReplyDeleteIt's a fukn freak.
ReplyDeleteperfect warning song. lyrics to remain in your mind when dating a narc/socio:
ReplyDeleteI had a dream
This one I feel the need to mention
I was happy for awhile
And I stopped being scared and ashamed
To say what’s on my mind
But you thought I’d change after awhile
And said “you’d better treat me different or else”
“Or else” seems like a stupid fucking thing to say to someone like me
Someone like me
Wow, wow, wow
Wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow-wow…
Don’t be surprised I can look you in the eye
It’s hard to take you serious when you take me inside
I’m worse
Than what you think you’d catch from me
Complicated’s understated
Did you stop and take a look at who you fell in love with?
It doesn’t matter
How many times I say it
It never gets old
That’s why I have to say
Wow, wow, wow
It doesn’t matter if you’re going to come or just going
I never wanted you to come here anyway
There’s a word that’s like you
Because it can be a noun, a verb, a exclamation, or the thing I say
When something is unbelievable
When I’m not able to believe how unbelievably unbelievable
That you believe you could not be leave-able
That’s when I have to say
Wow, wow, wow
No... please tell me M.E didn't just link to Marilyn Manson.
ReplyDeletewow~
ReplyDeletewhat do socios have against goths? could someone please explain? is it the attempt at being visually screaming that they are narcs/socios? are there empath goths?
ReplyDeleteloser goths....
ReplyDelete"A study published on the British Medical Journal concluded that "identification as belonging to the Goth subculture [at some point on their lives] was the best predictor of self harm and attempted suicide [among young teens]", and that it was most possibly due to a selection mechanism (persons that wanted to harm themselves later identified as goths, thus raising the percentage of those persons who identify as goths). The study was based on a sample of 15 teenagers who identified as goths, of which 8 had self-harmed by any method, 7 had self-harmed by cutting, scratching or scoring, and 7 had attempted suicide.
The authors held that most self-harm by teens was done before joining the subculture, and that joining the subculture would actually protect them and help them deal with distress in their lives.
The authors insisted on the study being based on small numbers and on the need of replication to confirm the results. The study was criticized for using a small sample of goth teens and not taking into account other influences and differences between different types of goth."
A California woman stabbed repeatedly by her then-boyfriend, a comedic Hollywood actor, on Friday described his courtroom antics explaining his violence as "very surreal and bizarre" -- and, above all, insincere.
ReplyDelete"In his testimony, he stated that it was the knife that did it, and he stated this repeatedly,
Fucking faqqot goths
ReplyDeleteUKan, it's obvious you are Nikita, you pussy
ReplyDeletewhat kind of man wears gold bracelet and diamond ring? says openly that he is vain.
ReplyDeletei don't buy any of the following bullshit... i hate seeing shiny jewelry on guys. aearienne, medusa, grace, notme... what do you all think? is this man a narc, or a gold digger? UKan, any decorations on you? TNP? PMS?
ReplyDeleteI refuse to go out with a man wearing gold bracelet or stoned rings. gold chain necklace somewhat hidden inside would work.
"Nothing gets a man noticed more than a little bling! Women love a man comfortable enough to wear jewelry. It gives an air of confidence, sophistication and knowledge of fine things. Women have always loved to have and wear nice jewelry and seeing a man confident enough in his masculinity to wear a men's gold bracelet or men's gold ring will instantly communicate a nice vibe to a woman glancing his way.
Jewelry on a man also shows that he is capable of recognizing nice things for himself and women like that trait in others. Since women are more likely to be nurturing, it is always an attractive trait for a man to show that he knows how to pick out nice things for himself. Most women do not like having to help men pick out their attire and fashion accents. When a man wears jewelry, he instantly communicates his ability look nice on his own.
There are many types of jewelry items available for men to choose from such as rings, bracelets, and necklaces. Men can add stones to the items. Birthstones are a popular choice for a stone to add to a ring. It is a nice conversation piece as well.
As women cast their eyes on a crowd of men, they will instantly notice the man that has shown the attention to detail of adding jewelry to his outfit. Jewelry can be worn with business attire or casual clothing.
The addition of jewelry to casual clothing gets even more attention as the items tend to really stand out and be noticed. A men's gold bracelet with a matching men's gold ring will definitely have women taking notice, sometimes it's the little things that make a lasting impression."
Narcissist's song
ReplyDeleteFuck jewelry
ReplyDeletegreat song, mike. just what the doctor ordered. makes me wanna kill the guy (after sucking all his juices)
ReplyDeleteNarcissists Anthem!
ReplyDeleteNarcissist song
ReplyDeleteIn love with myself
ReplyDeleteIn love with my own reflection
With my own affection
With the vision that i see
There's nobody else
I'm taking my own direction
I can see perfection
Doing all i can for me
In love with myself...
I can take you to hell
I'm falling so deep inside it
And i just can't hide it
Feel it burning down on me
I dance with myself
As hundreds of eyes are waiting
Can't strip completely
And the lights are burning me
In love with myself...
Tonight i'm gonna meet somebody
After all the lights have died
I'm still living,
But what am i giving?
In love with myself
In love with my own reflection
With my own affection
With the vision that i see
There's nobody else
I'm taking my own direction
I can see perfection
Doing all i can for me
In love with myself...
Everybody wants your body
There's nobody who can
take you to heaven
We'll make it forever
Tonight i'm gonna meet somebody
After all the lights have died
I'm still living
But what am i giving?
now, that makes me think? we need an algorithm to shed the narcissistic bs in us.
ReplyDeleteNarcissism isn't really a disorder, i can tell those people are enjoying themselves.
ReplyDeleteyes, clear separation between narcissism and npd. former are enjoying themselves without realizing how others mock them. the latter are abusing and killing the objects of their envy. all in all it's best to be subtle about narcissistic traits even when mild. they close doors when not tasteful.
ReplyDeleteThat Guetta song is just terrible. Fucking painful to listen to.
ReplyDeleteAs far as jewelry goes, it either goes with your look or it doesn't. Pretty simple.
I'd rather to Guetta than that homo Manson.
ReplyDeleteWhat's your point? That you have shitty taste in music, just not that shitty? Congratulations.
ReplyDeleteOnly jewlery I'd wear is a watch, and it has got to be over 300 dollars, when people ask I'll say it was 2000.
ReplyDeleteWho do you listen to, TNP?
ReplyDeleteWhen Marilyn Manson first burst forth the entire goth scene collectively cringed. I was a punk babygoth in the 90s and Manson was not particularly accepted by the old school goths, fans were referred to as mansonites and the band was thought of as a goth influenced industrial act.
ReplyDeleteMost of the goths I've known well are pretty successful and interesting and well adjusted. One here owns a bike shop, another friend is an animator/director and singer/songwriter who has more in common with NPD than "woe is me". The rest are assorted graphic designers or IT nerds. (I'm well aware that there are many pathetic specimens, however, this is true of any subculture and not true of the people I've been close to)
I've been involved with about a half-dozen guys who cut themselves and NONE of them were goth or even easy to place as not totally mainstream based on their appearance aesthetically(when wearing long sleeves). call them pussies if you like, but all of them could/can withstand unbelievable amounts of pain and discomfort without obvious distress or complaining.
When I lived in a much bigger city and there was a much larger goth scene the people I knew were journalists, in fashion, comedians, hairdressers, musicians and other assorted professions. Other than the trappings they didn't seem all that different than anyone else except perhaps more introspective. though I'd say that I notice (in retrospect) that there may have been a higher than usual amount of socios or sociopathic behavior.
jewelry on dudes-- I'm with Note on this... it looks good if it matches your look. If your look repels me then your jewelry will also.
ReplyDeleteI don't know one single sociopath who dresses in goth attire, they all wear normal clothes, they also mock outcasts like that, same with narcissists.
ReplyDeleteI think the reason why narcissists/sociopaths dislike rockers and other losers who are similar is because they are constantly underestimating others, i had a narcissist friend one, i would be walking down the block with this guy and I'd be like "did you see the size of his arms, he'd kick the shit out of you" and my narc friend would tell me to shut the fuck up "If i joined a gym, I'd be much fucking bigger than this fag, I'd beat the shit out of him too"
ReplyDeletea gold cross sticking out of a black mock top, a thick gold bracelet, a gold diamond covered ring. i mean, seriously, notable, can you see that becoming a man?
ReplyDeletefrom ehow:
what jewelry an irish man wear to show his pride?
the answer:
None
Anon, i'm quite indifferent about jewelry on men. It's quite nice if something has sentimental value to them. But, it's not something that grabs me. (Anon, 8.50, i sort of see your point).
ReplyDeleteBad hair is the worst turn-off for me though - overly-styled etc. Ugh.
And I don't get the goth thing at all. seems like a lot of the women here are/were goths. I think i must be anti-goth. lol.
I don't like jewelry on men. Except a nice watch and that's it. I like the boots they wear!! Red Wing boots are cool! I like a go t too. I’m anti goth too Notme but maybe that's my age. And wtf is that music? I can’t even call that music…BLA.
ReplyDeleteyou did not like Yoav, Grace? I did not think he is goth. Loved his voice. Getting addicted actually.
ReplyDeleteYes, shoes... If you want to get the attention of a ma, compliment him on his shoes. hopefully, you really like them too, not just a fake compliment.
ha ha..I'm just talking about looking at a man. I don't think I would compliment any man on anything unless I knew him a bit. I'm not a sociopath.
ReplyDeletec'mon now. complimenting a person (unless excessively) is not a socio trait. guys need a little attention too, see the children in them, so cute. like UKan. don't you see the baby in UKan? little rascal?
ReplyDeleteI'm so bored, not knowing what to do w myself... what are you doing?
after goth listened to some vivaldi, cleansed my soul.
I've seen plenty of city "pussy" goths. I think the oddest bit were the country goths I saw in the San Joaquin Valley... Loud, obnoxious, cynical and sadistic. Not the kind of people you really wanted to cross. Enough goth to stand out, and enough country to be crazy. Definitely some violent predators in that mix. I doubt that's how they all were in that town, just the ones that went to a school where I was at for a few months.
ReplyDeleteI listen to literally everything, genre-wise. There's good music everywhere. I've data-mined enough to know that. I also know taste is person to person, but I have no qualms on calling your song the steaming pile of shit that it is.
Cheers
notable, you're not referring to vivaldi as shit, are you?
ReplyDeletecheers back, daddy.
Maybe I'm shy Classic. Don't really know but that's me. Doesn't anyone listen to Metallica anymore? Lord.
ReplyDeleteFor some reason Ukan doesn't come across as cute or childlike. I’m cute. Maybe he’s handsome and I’m sure his charm adds to his features.
At first I thought this was going to be that one WoW video where that one guild member goes insane and rogue and goes in to attack without waiting for everyone else. But instead I get.....Marylin Mason?
ReplyDeleteReally?
Manson is to Goth as Green Day is to Punk. Bullshit for children.
I said song, not artist. Did you list a song?
ReplyDeletehappy nihilist song
ReplyDeleteI like how someone asked "what do socios have against goths". Like this is some sociopathic trait.
ReplyDeleteWe voted against them last month. We have a genetic hatred of men that wear makeup.~
Not a fan of men in make up. Some eyeliner is okay, but only sometimes under the right circumstances.
ReplyDeleteI dated this guy once, he was an Adonis, like the epitome of godly good looks to an insane crazy out-of-this-world beyond-model level, but he couldn't leave the house without putting foundation on and he plucked his eyebrows to hell. He mostly wore womens clothing (not drag, just more 70s man style). He had pictures of himself all over his room. A recluse addicted to an Adderall and weed routine. Only dated older women. Talked like a normal person but wrote in the most pretentious style I've ever seen, like he thought he was Byron or some shit. He was not goth, just... Oedipal, I guess.
medusa, that must have been some fun character. don't you wish you just met him with all that you know now?
ReplyDeleteGrace- the stuff most of the goths I know listen to is not that new. Joy Division, Siouxsie and the Banshees, Bauhaus, stuff like that. Proto-goth music. Manson is probably.....3rd wave goth. Like Medusa says..... kid stuff.
ReplyDeleteI work in the fashion/beauty industry, and never felt married to one scene/look, so I have run the gamut of punk/goth/rockabilly for a long time. Though I have toned it down as I've gotten older I'm very heavily tattooed and generally have some unnatural haircolor, so I'm easily identified at sub-culture-ish. Though I tend to prefer a librarian-in-fishnets look these days...
Metallica? really? ugh. I felt like of all the bands ever they alienated their fans with all that crud. Did you see that horrible movie with them weeping and going to therapy? I did recently go to see Anthrax, Megadeth and Slayer, though.
Lol - I wear normal clothes, and always have, generally i look down on goths, and punks, even heavily tattooed people.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny with those sorts of people, they claim its just a "style" and it doesn't define them as a person, once you get to know these idiots, you find that was all bullshit, they really are outcasts.
Some Kind of Monster... awesome.
ReplyDeleteI still like the old Metallica stuff. But I'm more into the doom sludgey stuff these days. Sleep, YOB, stuff like that.
Anon, I started dating the guy with the intent to use him, sort of. I was trying to be the type of person who goes off and fucks someone after being fucked over (which I'm not, at all). I saw no future in it and I wasn't really attracted to him. But I had this logic going where I was all "well he's really good-looking so I should want to fuck him, right?"
But I guess I didn't really so the whole thing faded quickly. In large part because we were each unimpressed with each other's music. He was all jangle-jangle-lesbian-Smiths, I was all rawr-death-isolation.
He was so prissy and uptight it would have been like fucking My Little Pony anyhow. Tight body, though...
ReplyDeletegoths want to be different. to achieve this they dress the same.
ReplyDeletetype "shibuya bridge goth" into google image for a laugh. i've seen some interesting get-up on people there - and they hang out there just to show off how much they dare to be different. they don't get that they are showing off to the very people who's opinion they claim not to care about. if there were a socio vote about goths i would vote to be apathetic to them - they are seeking external validation just like the 'normal' empaths.
I don't follow the "to be different" stereotype. The only people I've heard claim this are hipsters.
ReplyDeleteThey know they're dressing the same, it (along with some sub-types) is a fashion of sorts.
Now, you can argue deviating from the norm, ie, whatever is in front of the Macy's catalog :P
i don't know that goths/emos dress up to impress socios. they mainly dress to impress each other, so they can adamantly pretend to be unimpressed.
ReplyDeletewv: holoto
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ReplyDeleteUKan, it's obvious you are Nikita, you pussy
Try, Nikita, it's obvious you are UKan, you bitch.
Maybe then you will get a reaction.
lol.
I'm getting a tattoo of an owl on my back. My son's father is bringing me to his guy. I'm really nervous about it.
ReplyDeleteim getting a dick tattoo on my chest
ReplyDeleteGood luck Grace.
ReplyDeleteI have exactly zero tattoos.
Between your tits?
ReplyDeleteMy last tattoo was of a slice of apple pie with my Grandma's name.
ReplyDeleteJust try getting a polite response about your tattoos (or planned tattoos) here. Or about anything, for that matter.
ReplyDeleteFuck you, Emily(I couldn't resist).
ReplyDeleteI'm getting Spider Man riding a unicorn, throwing webs and covering everything but the girly parts of naked ladies on my back. It'll be epic.
ReplyDeleteKidding.
I've been thinking about a few tats here and there, but have been too apathetic about it. I actually almost went out and got one today, but got distracted and get a new leather jacket instead.
Neck tattoo is like the universal code for a sociopath.
ReplyDeleteOr douchebag looking to create an effect.
ReplyDeleteYou have to have serious problems to get a neck tatt, true?
ReplyDeleteanonymous, why do you think that?
ReplyDeleteThese days it seems either people who have tattoos "look like everyone else" or "have problems"(with the implications that they have problems to a greater degree than the public at large) I just think it's funny that these are the top 2 statements about being heavily tattooed. It cannot be both.
My skin is beautiful between my tits. So I'll leave that area alone. Thanks for the suggestion.
ReplyDeleteOh. I get it now..lol. I didn't see Notme's comment.
ReplyDeletequestion..who's under 30 here?
ReplyDeleteI have two tatoos and they are both from things I overcame and survived.
ReplyDeleteWe call people a 'tatoo' when they blast themselves with their block all over their body, but you can see their fear in their eyes.
Tatoos to me, like scars, are memories
i have your name on my tits UKan
ReplyDeleteThat's a good way of thinking about them UKan. I just need to do something radical with myself. I feel myself changing in some way and this just makes sense to me.
ReplyDeleteYou don't have a name we took it from you worm. Your impersonations are retarded. Get something going if you're going to play a game or continue to look as dumb as you ever have.
ReplyDeleteIts good to symbolize change. The subconscious mind works in symbols.
ReplyDeleteI think ill get a tatoo when I go legit to close this chapter in my life.
Hey Grace, I'm under 30, (I think that's a bit obvious, lol).
ReplyDeleteNotme. haha. Prick.
Actually i have no tatoos but wanted to get one a couple of years ago. It was gonna be a line from one of my poems. (I know, what did you expect? hehe)
I still haven't done it, like Notable I get apathetic once the obsession is over, but I'd still like it - maybe under my neck at the back.
I love the owl one Grace, I've always found owls so beautiful!
But personally, i'd never do an image. LOL, the reason I thought i'd get one on my back is so that i can forget it's there, otherwise, I know i'd grow sick of it!
"they are both from things I overcame and survived."
Ukan, that's exactly how I saw it. I never had any interest in tatoos before then.
I find myself admiring men's tatoos. They're kind of like scars, which are always appealing to me.
The narc I knew had his first name in mahusive letters on his back! red flag?
Ukan is nikita? Why can you not contemplate women with power. Does that threaten you?
ReplyDeleteI was just curious Notme. I'm over thirty, not by much but I feel so old when I come in here and blog. I'm just feeling lonely I think so everything seems better than what's going on in my life. And I feel even worse that I feel this way about this place..lol.
ReplyDeletewhy do you feel that? People here are a mix in terms of age. I just happen to be quite immature. I feel either 15 or 90. Nothing really in between! lol.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't mean anything. And you certainly don't come across as out of place or anything. (plus, 30s are the new 20s, haven't you heard?)
But occasionally, the trolls really are about 12. :)
From how much you talk about being old I thought you were 60. Peoples view of you comes a lot from the way you feel about yourself.
ReplyDeleteWhen you are lonely people will leave you that way. Nobody likes lonely people, because people are attracted toward positivity not negativity.
A lot of times people self impose their own isolation. Everyday living like that is another wasted day in a short life. Pretend you have one year to live and live this entire year like that. You will see a major difference.
When you said people are attracted to towards positivity, of course you meant positive people. Negative people feed off each others vindictiveness.
ReplyDeleteI know I have isolated myself and I think I’ve developed a major trust issue with men now. And to top it all off I don’t know if I trust myself to be smart enough around them. I’m fine with other people and I’ve done so well in school, work and my kid is good. So I have no real problems. Also, I think I have to make different choices in men too. I need a nerd!!
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to trust someone, and trust issues in your context seems like a fancy way to say you're no longer naive.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need a nerd, either, especially not at that age... nerdy(y), possibly ok. Not the center of their "thing" though.
It's never too late to date in this day and age. Put yourself back on the market, Grace. You're wiser now and know what to look for.
So hot out of the box
ReplyDeleteCan we pick up the pace
Turn it up, heat it up
I need to be entertained
Push the limit, are you with it?
Baby don't be afraid
Imma hurt you real good baby
Let's go it's my show, baby, do what I say
Don't trip off the glitz that I'm gonna display
I told you, Imma hold ya down until you're amazed
Give it to ya til you're screamin' my name
No escaping when I start
Once I'm in I own your heart
There's no way to ring the alarm
So hold on until it's over
Oh!
Do you know what you got into
Can you handle what I'm 'bout to do
'Cause it's about to get rough for you
I'm here for your entertainment
Oh!
I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet
You thought an angel swept you off your feet
But I'm about to turn up the heat
I'm here for your entertainment
'Sall right
You'll be fine
Baby I'm in control
Take the pain
Take the pleasure
I'm the master of both
Close your eyes, not your mind
Let me into your soul
I'm gonna work it 'til your totally blown
No escaping when I start
ReplyDeleteOnce I'm in I own your heart
There's no way to ring the alarm
So hold on 'til it's over
Oh!
Do you know what you got into
Can you handle what I am about to do
'Cause it's about to get rough for you
I'm here for your entertainment
Oh I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet
You thought an angel swept you off your feet
But I'm about to turn up the heat
I'm here for your entertainment
Oh
Do you like what you see?
Oh
Let me entertain ya 'til you scream
Oh!
Do you know what you got into
Can you handle what I am about to do
'Cause it's about to get rough for you
I'm here for your entertainment
Oh!
I bet you thought that I was soft and sweet
You thought an angel swept you off your feet
But I'm about to turn up the heat
I'm here for your entertainment
I feel fucking great!
ReplyDeleteWhy is that UKan?
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteHad a great night.
lmao.
I'm here for my own entertainment.
ReplyDeleteAnd I am here for yours.
ReplyDeleteWOW! Don't I feel special...lol
ReplyDeleteI woke up with a crisis that couldve costed me a lot of money. I ended finding a solution to the problem, while incidently putting a competitor out of business. It was a blessing in disguise. That was my afternoon.
ReplyDeleteI made a enemy that has been bugging me grovel. He was a really arrogant, that was the best part.
People told me how amazing I was the whole night boosting my already inflated ego. I got all the employees sandwiches from a shop around the corner, and now they believe I am the best thing that's happened to the community. That was my night. I'm floating home now.
This tourist from england came in and saw this whole racket of a club, it was hilarious. Here I am doing shit that's prohibited out in the open in a suit with my girlfriend on the couch playing scrabble on her phone and a bodyguard. Meanwhile all around us is pure chaos. Terrible music that only these people can love, half naked women, half naked men, and people fucking in the corner. He turned to me and told me "This is insane, how is this allowed." I toldem welcome to *my country deleted*
ReplyDeleteYou seriously expect me to believe all that?????????
ReplyDeleteNope. The truth is always stranger than fiction. That's why I cut it short to I feel great.
ReplyDeleteYour stories are very entertaining, and I'm glad you are feeling so great.
ReplyDeletenow, take the scene you created and instead of an english tourist imagine an english boy scout leader bringing 20 boy scouts in the rage of 10-14 into that scene. add some shows on a stage and add audience participation. take one of the kids onto stage to interact with two naked boys, except after one minute one of the naked women stopping the show, screaming to the audience and demanding these boys to be out of there.
ReplyDeletelocation: red light district, amsterdam
My bodyguard caught pneumonia and had to take antibiotics. He told me that he got diahrea from it. Since I had no reaction from that comment he told me he had a 'long story' for me.
ReplyDeleteI toldem I didn't want to know.
He told me that when he went to the car to get his water he felt it coming on him, so he stopped and caught himself. Then he reached in his car and it almost went down so he dropped down and handled it in the street. Fortunatly he had napkins and hand santitizer in the car. We were looking for people with shit on their shoe all night.
Didn't realy need to know that, but thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteUKan, do you ever sleep?
ReplyDeletewhat a story..lol.
wv:subwar
A psychopath is much worse than a sociopath, there are less psychopaths too, thank goodness.
ReplyDeleteYah, I sleep. I'm not in your timezone, and I have odd hours. I should be tired right now but I'm still high off life. I wanted to spread my positivity to this sometimes depressing blog.
ReplyDeleteThat's right, I forgot you're in a far off land. Have a good rest when you come off your high:)
ReplyDeleteI'm going snowboarding with my kid. Later peeps.
how fun.. enjoy for us too, Grace.
ReplyDeleteDamn, I hate it when computers crash.
ReplyDeleteWow. I love the Manson song.
ReplyDeleteWV: "Comeness", he he he.