A friend asked me:
I've been watching a little dexter, the first 3 episodes so far. I want to know how you explain his aversion to sex because arent most sociopaths super promiscuous? They dont understand the morality of sex but it still feels good so whats dexter's deal. I can understand him not getting the emotional side of it but theres more to it than that. Do you have any insights?I said: Well, the new version of Sherlock Holmes is supposed to be a sociopath and also asexual. From what I know of sociopaths, there sometimes seems to be more of an interest in the power and seduction aspects of sex, and less the actual act itself, perhaps because basically all it is to them is physical gratification, no soul melds or expressions of anything but dominance, power, and vulnerability. But I also think that sociopaths have physical needs just as much as anyone, and their lack of ability to conform to social norms may make their sexual activities seem comparatively more prominent and important in the sociopath's life, just because they're attitude about sex is more direct and less apologetic or euphemistic. Despite appearances, though, I don't think that there is necessarily anything unique about the sociopath's approach to sex vis a vis other drives, but rather that the nature of the sociopath's impulsiveness as it relates to sexual urges is the same as the sociopath's impulsiveness as it relates to everything else. In other words, to the extent that third parties perceive sex to stand out in a sociopath's personality, it may just be due to the squeamishness and buzz that most people associate with sex and sexuality, rather than there being a categorical difference between the sociopath's approach to sex and any other of his bodily needs.
I'm super interested in this kind of stuff, probably because you are too and i found it a little weird how they portray him. He does a lot of stereotypical socio things like killing animals but they decided not to have him be promiscuous which prolly could have generated more buzz. Yeah i do like the inner monologues haha. You're probably right about there being a socio writer cause a lot of the things he says sound just like you. :)
Sex is fine, I can't stand the thought of having multiple sexual partners though, cheating is okay in my book but fucking anything with a heartbeat is just as low as you can get, anymore than three and your a freak. Most girls who have been abused will sleep with anything, they think the guy will have affection for them, when in reality they are just looking for an easy lay.
ReplyDeleteCough notme cough
ReplyDeleteLol that is totally me outside the window.
ReplyDeleteHow much empathy do others have? If i could push a button now and kill a few random people I would do it, I'm not angry i just don't care.
ReplyDeleteI've never had much of a sex drive. I've never wanted, thought about sex more than 10 seconds tops. Still a virgin, but with no desire. I'm sure once I get a taste of it, I'll want it maybe.
ReplyDeleteWhat's up with all these superfluous comments?
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to the good ol' days of,
"Haha, I think Sherlock Holmes would be a curious sociopath, good man! He might not be interested in sex, because in a state of pure consciousness, it's just a sensation, and sensations are all illusions. Now, if you were thinking of arguing with me, let me tell you right now that you can't argue with me. Cheerio!"
Now all we have is, "SEX IS LIKE MONKEYS I HAD SEX LAST WEEK HEHEHE"
From dumb to dumber. Not cool.
I'd say the more cerebral a person is the less physical aspects seem to be important (except this doesn't apply to me). Without something to stimulate the mind, pure physicality loses it's appeal because it doesn't necessarily engage the higher functioning mind. This is why the courting, the challenge of it may be more appealing then the actual act itself. You have to figure out what buttons to push, just how to manipulate another persons emotions in order to create the proper response in another person. Once this has been accomplished, the challenge is over.
ReplyDeleteI agree with HavenNyx.. The act doesn't really matter.. More the ability to make it happen through your abilities.. Which i suppose is why sociopaths have problems with long term relationship..
ReplyDeleteI'm going to go against the grain on this one. I'm not asexual but I'm more asexual than supersexual. I don't always fancy having a partner, I just don't always have those needs. I remember a short time again M.E. commenting on how for every few hours he spends with someone he prefers to have double that amount of time alone to recoup/whatever. I'm probably more like that. So, my anti-social behavior prevents 67 partners at once. I know a whore when I see one, don't get me wrong. I am fully aware of the differences in people. I've gotten rave reviews on my "performances" before, and I've also gotten "it was good" meaning the sex wasn't bad but not great. I don't believe that two people are the same though. Also, to add more, I do find I've tried to connect with people I have genuinely liked I just can't. There's either nothing there or the problem is me and this blog suggests it's me. The reason, in absolute, as to why I don't really give a shit is due to the fact that humanity often embraces alternate reality so whatever I am doesn't really matter :)
ReplyDeleteThere you have it. But yes I enjoy sex just as much as you on the physical side, I just can't "feel" a strong need in that department like you do.
"the challenge is over"
ReplyDeleteI agree 100% with Adam and Haven
Adam, "Most girls" are not all the same. This is why the nature of the game sometimes must change.
Keep it simple for yourself. What do YOU want? Either put things aside to bring up seduction later, whereby keep seductee on edge and yourself still curious, or go in to kill only to put out a fire too soon. Whatever suits you. But know the end of the thrill is near.
Impulse control sex, a major seduction tool:
Tricky tricky tricky:
Many socios would rather prolong the experience of the first encounter. They know everything may go downhill after that. Because they know how bored they could get once they've caught desired target. Unless there is a longterm master plan in place, fires may go out at lightening speed
"every few hours he spends with someone he prefers to have double that amount of time alone to recoup/whatever. I'm probably more like that."
ReplyDeleteFind a girl with less time to devote to you. Find someone with less expectations. FInd someone who already knows that one of your greatest pleasures is breaking hearts --that is, if you're a "predictable" socio. If she finds you unpredictable, and you find her mysterious, there may ALWaYS be a challenge. Problem solved
what makes a girl mysterious to a sociopath? I am dating a typical socio. We just had sex and he has almost done a 180...I like his cold attitude and I have a normal guy on the side so I am having fun playing the game. Again what makes a girl mysterious to a sociopath??? I want to know
DeleteI don't need alone time. I enjoy it but I don't need it. If people really start to get on my nerves I just ignore them or have something to drink. Or I lash out at them if they take it to far. I could live without sex but I'd rather not. I don't really care if a girl is slutty or not, just so long they look good. I don't think that sex is beneath me or anyone else. If you think so, your just limiting your options and opportunities. The world revolves around sex and money(thats what it seems like anyway).
ReplyDeleteHi,
ReplyDeleteJust a question regarding expected response from a BPD/NPDish girl I've been messing around with for a while.
Currently we are in no-man's-land, just having ended a short affair, and I'm kind of annoyed that she wouldn't
go home with me when I asked her this weekend.
So, we have a mutual friend that I'm getting good vibes from. Very hot. What would you say is the typical BPD
response if I hook up with her friend?
(I'm not playing for keeps with either, moving to a new country soon... )
Trying to figure out the most plausible scenarios...
Adam that is so true.
ReplyDeleteI thought for a while that asexuality was common in regards to sociopathy. I have no empirical evidence to back this hypothesis up, though, and several that I've talked to apparently really like to have it.
ReplyDeleteI think ME pretty much hit the nail on the head for how I feel about it.
There's also the aspect of misanthropy in my case. Having sex with some idiots is not far removed from any other mammal. The thought of them having children is terrifying.
Most psychopaths are straight, with all that testosterone flowing through you, how could you be attracted to the male physique?
ReplyDeleteAgreed with misanthrope. I fucked everything I could when I was a teenager, and the first couple of years when I got out of prison I had to make up for lost time. Going a week without sex is my limit.
ReplyDeleteI had sex with three of my ex girlfriends friends in a van in a church parking lot over a game of truth and dare and scotch the third day I was out. I've had two threesomes, one foursome (that one I just said), and one instance of public sex.
I'm a sex binger I guess you could say. If I find someone worth it ill be monogomous. If I'm not monogomous then I need a team of birds with some variety. I think I've slowed down a little now that I'm about to be thirty. I didn't account for making it this long so now I'm making changes in case I actually live to be old.
It somewhat surprised me too on the alone time. I need about 2 hours alone a week, if that. I like to spend my time amongst the people. I need to have a couple of groups going at once that I'm either in power of, or gaining power in.
Ivey Stylez, ask the BPD board about their feelings not us. If you want my opinion I say fuck her feelings. After or just before you break up with someone you should always check out the side dishes (her friends) who've been sitting on the menu. Girls are dirty to each other. They constantly envy each other's men.
ReplyDeleteDon't narcs refrain from sex because they think it's below them? I don't really give a shit. I first had sex when I was 13 and I haven't really stoped since. Not for long anyway. I've always had a strong sexual appetite. I started watching hardcore porno when I was only about 7 or 8. I don't know what the normal age to start is, but I think thats pretty young.
ReplyDeleteI would have to disagree but again, I can only speak from my perspective. For me sex is great. It's fun and certainly provides gratification, but much like everything else it isn't necessary. I see so many people around me with an intense (or I suppose "normal") sexual drive. It compels them to spend inordinate amounts of time at bars and pursue the opposite sex at social gatherings. I certainly have the ability to do this, but I don't need to. Hard to explain. If a girl shows up at my apartment or blatantly shows interest, I'm obviously aroused, but nothing drives me outside of that.
ReplyDeleteNow the game.... That's different. Going to a party and seeing the look in a girl's eyes at the moment she's interested. It's different for every single one, but they all have that instantaneous moment in their face that says, "You've won."
That is pretty young o,0
ReplyDeleteDepends on the person.
ReplyDeleteDo to my desire to act on violent sexual encounters alone, I pretty much avoid sex for the most part. I don't need it, can live without it, but I do desire it at times, and when I want it, I go out and get it. But it has to be sadistic. Pain, degradation, blood, and all that is what gets me off. All that other shit (kissing, caressing,etc.) I don't react physically at all.
ReplyDeleteIf involved with men (rare) I want a man to take charge, kinda beat me, so I can fight him back, or let me hurt him, but it gets boring rather quickly. With women I am somewhat gentle, but I always have the urge to hurt them. My self control is pretty much lacking in that department. Still working on it.
Misanthrope, didn't you talk about love and the concept of love being beneath you once?
ReplyDeleteMy my. :)
I guess you were "feeling" a little bit narc that day.
I swear most men these days are either gay or bi, I can honestly say, hand on heart If another guy tried to pull a move on me I'd snap, gays are disgusting, they are a genetic screw up, who else agrees? Misanthrope? UKan?
ReplyDeleteMisanthrope
ReplyDeleteDon't narcs refrain from sex because they think it's below them? I don't really give a shit.
Idiot:
Misanthrope, didn't you talk about love and the concept of love being beneath you once?
Do you think your simple little brain can figure this puzzle out if I put it side by side for you?
I never said it was beneath me, I just said that I've never felt it.
ReplyDeleteAdam I find people who are disgusted with homos the most are closet homosexuals themselves. The rest of us dont give a shit. They are obviously not a genetic mutation as they have been fucking each other up the ass since the dawn of time.
ReplyDeleteI never said that it was beneath me anyway, I just said that I've never felt it(fucking spam filter).
ReplyDeleteLol predictable, so a misogynist secretly has a pair of tits?
ReplyDeleteYes infact.
ReplyDeleteMost girls who have been abused will sleep with anything
ReplyDeleteFar from true here. Low low number.
Girls are dirty to each other. They constantly envy each other's men.
Not true here either. Other people's men can fuck off.
I started watching hardcore porno when I was only about 7 or 8.
I started making hardcore pornos when I was 7 or 8. Drawings, then Polaroids, then video.
I used to think sex was bizarre, idiotic and kind of gross. I still kind of do. Doesn't stop me from being a perv, though.
The actual act doesn't thrill me so much as the lead-up to it and the psychological aspects surrounding it, like the most of you.
No man has ever gotten me off, except for me. But I'm far from frigid (don't even try, Note), and my drive is very high.
Lol predictable, so a misogynist secretly has a pair of tits?
ReplyDeleteYes! And a pussy.
Again Medusa, comparing you to a women is like comparing a monkey to a fish.
ReplyDeleteOnce you figure out your gender you can debunk all the so called myths about women. I'll have you know that any beliefs I have on them came directly from their mouths. I guarantee you I have way more experience on women than you ever will.
Medusa as a women:
Most girls who have been abused will sleep with anything
Far from true here. Low low number.
Girls are dirty to each other. They constantly envy each other's men.
Not true here either. Other people's men can fuck off.
Now back to a man:
No man has ever gotten me off, except for me.
lol here we go
ReplyDeleteI guarantee you I have way more experience on women than you ever will.
ReplyDeleteMost of your women probably haven't debunked their own myths.
Also, it's more likely no one has gotten me off because of an intimacy issue. Hated being touched until I was around 25, when I learned to tolerate it. It used to make me flinch.
I'm like the female version of Terrance Howard.
(fyi: singular female is WOMAN. Unless you are trying to tell me that I am more woman that you can handle.)
Also, it has recently occurred to me that I've been a misogynist for most of my life. Not a misandrist. A misogynist. Getting over it right fast though, as I look back over my choice in men and the things I tolerated and the huge generation gap between my parents and myself, as well as a certain self-abhorrence.
ReplyDeleteSo parse that.
Most of your women probably haven't debunked their own myths.
ReplyDeleteWhy would you assume that? Do you think you are the one who is right, but most women are not.
Considering the facts are:
Most girls who have been abused will sleep with anything
Girls are dirty to each other. They constantly envy each other's men.
You admit YOU are not like most women, so how is a comparison of your personal behaviour reflective of the vast majority of women out there? You say that you don't identify with a gender, so you have no experience with women, as you are not one and you stated earlier that you havent explored homsexual relationships.
Girls are dirty to each other.
ReplyDeleteMy problem is you used "girls" as opposed to "most girls" or "many girls" or, even better, "all the girls I have known".
I did have minimal exploration with gayness. Kind of grossed me out, and I was as excited as a dead body during it. I don't think I'd be so grossed out now, though.
I meant it. Girls will be girls. It is a primal need for protection and mating. They are more cutthroat at it than men. I get hit on the most when I'm with someone. When I was single I would go to the club with a wedding ring and tell girls I'm married.
ReplyDeleteWell, this girl ain't being a 'girl'. So not all girls will be girls.
ReplyDeletei must admit, i do get a kick from going for married/attached guys. (don't you Medusa?)
ReplyDeletei hardly chase. the willing ones are willing.
that wedding ring thing is a joke. I never look for a ring on a man.
Your face is soaked in the truth already Ukan! ;)
I just assume all men are available one way or another. The less said about that the better.
Maybe i have an overblown opinion of my powers. hehe.
No, I don't.
ReplyDeleteI do go for the unavailable, though. Unavailable in other ways, or in the heart. Often still holding on to someone. But not literally unavailable.
I don't chase unless I've already been chased after.
The truth is not in my face. It's in Medusas.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know women, don't be arrogant, Mr. How To Pick Up Women.
ReplyDeleteUnless you are a woman yourself.
You may know how to deal with them and react to them, and perhaps create a vortex into which they fall, but don't say you "know women," Mr. Wake 'Em Up To Make Me Breakfast.
Pfft. You know the game, not the players.
i don't do stuff with friends' boyfriends, cos i'm very protective of my friends and i love them too much.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't.
There's always exceptions of course, but honesty with friends is important to me.
The game is played by knowing the players. I know most women better than they know themselves. I know most men better than they know themselves. It allows me to accomplish the goals I have set out for them to do.
ReplyDeleteI know how much you hate it. I love it. Your disgust with my cocky attitude is hilarious. Women like you I like to come off as cocky and then start to slowly tone it down over time. It makes you think you've tamed me and gives you a sense of self worth and accomplishment.
In the unaired Sherlock pilot the line "I'm not a psychopath Anderson, I'm a high-functioning sociopath, do your research." doesn't exist, but at one point Dr Watson says "Maybe Sgt Donovan was right about you.. She said you're a psychopath" To which Holmes replies "Oh, I didn't think she was that smart." Do remember it's a story and as such it's about what sounds better rather than what's accurate. After all. In the tunnel with the crossbow thing on a timer pointing at someone tied to a chair Holmes tries to untie them rather than just push the chair out of the way, cause that would've ruined the drama.
ReplyDeleteis it me or is the concept of taming a man rather lame? I've never understood that and i wouldn't want to tame a man. lordy. I find it bizarre. and pointlessly exhausting. i actually find it an embaressing endeavour.
ReplyDeleteWhere was I wrong?
ReplyDeletei must admit, i do get a kick from going for married/attached guys. (don't you Medusa?)
notme
"i don't do stuff with friends' boyfriends...There's always exceptions of course, but honesty with friends is important to me."
Notme
I do go for the unavailable, though. Unavailable in other ways, or in the heart. Often still holding on to someone. But not literally unavailable.
Medusa
wv: ouster
My first boyfriend, Mr. Viking Irish First Generation(they love me), stopped drinking when we started dating, of his own accord.
ReplyDeleteIt did make me feel a little proud.
I do have a history of men coming to me looking to be tamed. Usually by way of them taking me on a drug run. That's how I ended up with hands around my neck.
UKan, the unavailability phenomenon, I think, has more to do with my own unavailability than any gender thing.
Men do it, too.
not my good friends i've known for a while Ukan. Get it right.
ReplyDeleteLuckily, i've not been in love with their boyfriends.
So, maybe it's just good fortune, rather than my character.
I've come close to that scenario, but not that exact one. I fell in love with someone who's girlfriend was very good to me. We dated behind her back - that's about as close i've come to taking a 'friend's' guy.
i'm not debunking what you've said Ukan, i'm just telling you about my own experience. So shut it for a change.
Its not personal notme. Its just business.
ReplyDeletethanks for the reassurance, that's sweet of you. :P
ReplyDeletei actually meant that there are POTENTIAL exceptions. I don't have strict rules at all. I just go by my feelings, if something feels right or not, or if option B is better than option A etc.
From the original post. "there sometimes seems to more of an interest in the power and seduction aspects of sex, and less the actual act . . . no soul melds or expressions of anything but dominance, power, and vulnerability"
ReplyDeleteSex is a predictable function. Mechanical. The same ole, same ole.
The heart, mind and emotions, on the other hand are a far more interesting and complex playground.
I believe few want to live a life without the unpredictability of passion. The impulse options in power and vulnerability are endless.
So is one truly "heartless" when exercising these ranges? Perhaps when "feeling" is not present, "sensation" preys on intensity either in avoidance or abundance.
I can't believe a sociopath is my therapist.
ReplyDeleteActually, yes I can.
And free, to boot.
A psychotropic with the side effect of amusement. Not bad.
I have an extremely high sex drive, but I don't find anyone sexually attractive until her pussy is in my face, figuratively speaking. And even then, it's the pussy that's turning me on. Over time, it gets boring, and I have to start trying to make the sex wilder or I lose interest. Sex in a bath tub full of oil, using food (cucumbers, anyone?) as toys, threesome with her cousin, that kind of thing. I care quite a bit about the people I have sex with, but the feelings and the sex never really mix. And once the sex gets boring... I'd rather just masturbate. Nothing ruins my day quite like a woman I've won over who turns out to be an incurable prude. Missionary... fuck missionary, unless it's without a condom, and I'm cumming inside of her. But that's stupid as hell to do, so I try to avoid it when I can.
ReplyDeleteNot sure where that fits into the sexual spectrum.
the feelings and the sex never really mix
ReplyDeleteSame thing here.
I'd probably get off with a stranger, but that's not really my style.
Ukan, tell me, if Medusa is not like most women then all of your statements about "all women" having various primal instincts go into the water.
ReplyDeleteSo basically you have to work with the fact that every women is different.
Women are evil parasites, say no more on the subject.
ReplyDeleteAlthough I would like to agree with you, I can't.
ReplyDeleteSome women genuinely want love. I genuinely want my phallus scrubbed until I climax and spit semen
I guess Men are more of the parasites, socios in particular.
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ReplyDelete?? Fuck you Medusa
ReplyDeleteWhat's your mother like, Adam?
ReplyDeleteWhat's your mother like, Adam?
ReplyDeleteI don't know how people let me sit around all day in their home taking anything i want ha they wouldn't last a day doing that if i owned a home.
ReplyDeleteWhat's your mother like, Adam?
ReplyDeleteHeh. I asked my father to send me a list of books that are still in my the house.
ReplyDeleteOf course, he left out de Sade.
Hard to miss, too, as it's like a thousand pages.
Chilling all day long can be fun for a week or so, after a while you get tired of it, i think I'm going to do what UKan did and enroll in a college, I'll probably leave after a few days though :P
ReplyDeleteThere is no one (male or female, socio or non socio) who does not have an eye on "tricks they can try on their partners" Users, the lot, conscious or subconscious (or unconscious :p ) The differences are in the details of the individuals life. Generalizations will get people nowhere. And EVERYONE would rather masturbate. Fantasies are way better than flesh.
ReplyDelete:O Someone stole my name!
ReplyDeleteI haven't figured out how to give myself blowjobs yet.
ReplyDeleteJason, become a contortionist.
ReplyDeleteJason, your an idiot.
ReplyDeleteJason. Do you just lie on the floor all day long, furiously masturbating in your own filth and trying to suck yourself off?
ReplyDeleteI've already told you: the only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure.
ReplyDeleteMan's natural character is to imitate; that of the sensitive man is to resemble as closely as possible the person whom he loves. It is only by imitating the vices of others that I have earned my misfortunes.
ReplyDeleteI went to see the nurse this morning for my annual check-up. She told me that I have to stop wanking.
ReplyDelete"Why? I asked
She replied, "Because I'm trying to examine you."
I only watch torture porn.
ReplyDeleteThe two stooges are here.
ReplyDeleteOn the eve of our anniversary my wife and I agreed that whoever woke up first in the morning should wake the other one with oral sex.
ReplyDeleteCome the morning I was up first so I slowly pulled back the covers...... and stuck my cock in her mouth.
What do you say to a girl with two black eyes?
ReplyDeleteHi haven
I masturbate using an angle grinder. Sometimes to torture porn, sometimes to images of burnt corpses on the internet, and sometimes to the beautiful sight of an orphanage burning down with all the little fuckers inside of it. B-A-UTIFUL.
ReplyDeleteI masturbate, using an angle grinder. Sometimes to torture porn, sometimes to images of burnt corpses on the internet, and sometimes to the beautiful sight of an orphanage burning down with all the little fuckers inside of it. B-A-UTIFUL.
ReplyDeleteNikitia, It's 'you're'.
ReplyDeleteLearn to spell idiot.
Back in Nam, I torched six gukes at once using a flame thrower. There were bullets whizzing all over the place, explosion going off everywhere, but I couldn't ignore the fantastic sight of those charred corpses. I took my cock out right then and there, and rubbed one out for the USA. Later that day I took down an entire air base single handedly. They awarded me the Medal of Honour, but I threw it right back in the generals face. I'm to badass for that. I don't play by anybody's rules, not even my own......
ReplyDeleteSex is, indeed, undignified and messy, but it's fun to have that kind of power. I've always done it for my partner's reaction.
ReplyDeleteI make Cliff Olson look like Bambie.
ReplyDelete"To choose ones victims, to prepare ones plans minutely, to slake an implacable vengeance, and then to go to bed - there is nothing sweeter in the world" -Joseph Stalin
ReplyDeletePythias I have some mind boggling reactions to sex. My partners all rave about me in the end. I am the topic for the week always.
ReplyDeleteI can show you them firsthand, if you want to see things you haven't before.
;)
By "My partners" I'm sure you mean your left hand, and you right hand.
ReplyDeleteBy "My partners" I'm sure you mean your left hand, and your right hand.
ReplyDeleteNo man has ever gotten me off, except for me.
ReplyDeleteThe man is just a tool used to get yourself off.
wv: imold
Nikita, you're an idiot.
ReplyDeleteHow do you accept you're existence.
Jason said...
ReplyDeleteNikita, you're an idiot.
How do you accept you're existence.
lol....You poor pathetic little boy.
If you were so good in bed you wouldn't be contemplating giving yourself blowjobs. You know nothing of women retard. As usual, another dillusional narc.
ReplyDeleteNo wonder people call some men 'tools'.
ReplyDeleteThe guy at the store gave me the wrong change today. I took his head off with one swift roundhouse kick. Then I went to his home and murdered his entire family. Nobody fucks around with Badass.
ReplyDeleteThe guy at the store gave me the wrong change today. I took his head off with one swift roundhouse kick. Then I went to his home and murderded his entire family. Nobody fucks around with Badass.
ReplyDeleteCan't really be that great at 18 anyway.
ReplyDeleteJason you and Not Able should get together and blow each other. You can come back on here and tell us how great you were with legitimate witnesses.
ReplyDelete18 ha ha ha. You're still knee deep in the duck pond, kid.
ReplyDeleteStfu UKant
ReplyDeleteI've never been so turned off by sex as I am reading these comments. Oh well.
ReplyDeleteI wish I could have the sex I have in my dreams. Never happen.
That's what the idea was when I went around conjuring demons.
ReplyDeletewv: the ache
Sorry, just finishing of reading last week. Here is my favorite funny bit:
ReplyDeleteTheNotablePath said...
What's pointless about swearing? It's a form of emoting and emphasis.
Fucking morons.
February 5, 2011 6:54 PM
My sexual interest in someone is pretty much nil until I've actually had sex with them. It's not often that the foreplay doesn't lead to it, but it's nothing I've pressured them into. They usually just ask for it, at that point.
ReplyDeleteLike Pythias, it's more about pleasing them, as I take control. I want to hear them moan, twist, squirm, and feel their body pulse. Actual intercourse is pretty much just the cherry on top. Tasty, but not the bulk of what I wanted.
There are exceptions though. Public sex, surprise sex, stuff like that, it's pretty fun. I guess I play by different rules in the bedroom.
And to hell with missionary. In my experience, it's not them being prudish. It's women being lazy, oh, and I love this, "But I want to see your face."
Bull. Shit. Maybe if your eyes were open instead of being lost to the world.
That would be kind of weird, having someone stare at me in the eyes during missionary. I'm usually pretty good at staring competitions, but I hazard to guess I'd probably start laughing during the middle of it, and no one wants to hear their partner laugh during sex...
Pythias,
ReplyDeleteI saw Better off Ted.
Veronica is hilarious, I loved it.
Actually, the whole show was pretty damn good, but I especially liked her and the scientists.
He gets up, and exhibiting himself to me in a state over which reason is seldom triumphant, and wherein the opposition of the object which causes reason's downfall is but an additional ailment to delirium, he seizes me brutally, impetuously snatches away the veils which still conceal what he burns to enjoy; he caresses me ... Oh! What a picture Great God!
ReplyDeleteThere is no roguery the wolf will not invent to draw the lamb into his clutches: these are natural ruses, while benevolence has nothing to do with nature: charity is but an appurtenance of the weakness recommended by the slave who would propitiate his master and dispose him to leniency; it never proclaimed itself in man save in two cases: in the event he is weak, or in the event he will become weak.
ReplyDeleteDiabolical wretch!
ReplyDeleteGood tips Notable!
ReplyDeleteAbout looking into someones eyes during sex..it's too intense for me. I'm going to try it though. Hope I don't laugh.
"sex-by-surprise" ... just don't move to Sweden, Note.
ReplyDeleteLooking in someones eyes does work like a charm. You have to get their attention, then lock it in and look with fire behind them.
ReplyDeleteI love sex by surprise!
ReplyDeleteLook in my eyes and I'll probably start doing that crying thing.
ReplyDeleteOne time with the last guy, I had seizure spasms for 45 minutes afterwards (not related to eye contact).
Still miss that retard.
...Crying?
ReplyDeleteThat was supposed to be bait for ridicule. No one bit.
ReplyDeleteYou're a strange one Medusa. :)
ReplyDeleteOy vey, yes. :) It's the one thing that ties everyone together on this blog. We're all weird as hell.
ReplyDeletei agree with Ukan. You can pull it off.
ReplyDeleteBest sex is dangerous sex. You never know what's gonna happen afterwards. The power of the mind creates/heightens vulnerablity and fear. How can you close your eyes if you think the guy on top of you can literally destroy you? Eye contact in that state of mind won't make you laugh.
i need everything engaged to feel sex is worth while. mind and body.
I think i've always been scared of sex. I force myself to get over that but apprehension is still there. It gives it an edge for me, like my world could end because of it. There's a glimpse into my head for you all. :P
so yeah, eye contact, like Ukan describes, works wonders.
i don't know why you find it funny. LOL.
sex is serious business. ;)
of course, it's all about the right partner too...
a vivid, paranoid imagination is perfect for staving off any laughs. I don't GET you lot. lol.
am i revealing far too much about myself? meh
fuck i thought i was logged in. I've already broken my own promise.
ReplyDeleteLooking into someone's eyes with a crazed hunger is one thing. More than ten minutes, and it's downright comical, and probably creepy in not a good way.
ReplyDeletelol, i didn't exactly say ten minutes. You need to blink. ;)
ReplyDeleteI want a cigarette now...
When you look into my cold black eyes, you will never have had experienced something like this before, you will be consumed by fear, you will brace yourself before i viciously rape you.
ReplyDeleteProlonged eye contact would be a bit weird. Especially since the rest of your body is moving all about. Or should be.
ReplyDeleteMaybe 10-20 seconds tops at a time.
ooh Badass.
ReplyDeleteUm, anyway. I'm doing an apprentice marathon and it's bloody brilliant. (i mean the british one, i've not seen much of the american one besides a couple of eps).
But these ones have everything - nutters, sociopaths, blaggers, the lot - packed full of lols. I love it! :)
No Donald Trump?
ReplyDeleteoh and i forgot, gross ineptitude too. :D
ReplyDeleteno Trump. Why, is he much-loved over there?
ReplyDeleteit's a guy who used to be a Sir, now he's Lord Alan Sugar. It's funny seeing the contestants forget to address him by his new title since it changes every series. Next time it'll be King Sugar.
Well he's just a silly guy, entertaining to watch and hear talk. I think he's the main reason people watch the show over here. His mind lives in a crystal palace.
ReplyDelete"You're FIRED!"
I've only watched a couple of episodes though, a few years ago.
Yeah, I know what you're talking about, that hungry, somewhat brief consuming stare.
ReplyDeleteBut yeah. Anything more than 20 seconds is weird, even for my tastes...
"Looking into someone's eyes with a crazed hunger is one thing. More than ten minutes, and it's downright comical, and probably creepy in not a good way." **
ReplyDelete**Unless you have super duper control of dilating your pupils. If you have developed this ability, and you're with some freak who wants to see "how well he is doing" one laughs behind dilating eyes.
IT is fun to purposely wake up your partner to the sounds of your masturbating, and then tell them the next day when they are so tired, that if they had fucked you earlier that evening. they wouldn't be so tired.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, TN, Sherlock says the 'famous' line of dialog in the first of three episodes. Not sure if you knew that, or were only stating that it doesn't appear in the un-aired pilot.
ReplyDeleteNah I use it as much as possible and it isn't creepy, trust me. Try it out. I started using it because a girl I used to date told me, "I hope your not one of those guys that doesn't even look at me while we have sex." Something like that at least. If you are a creepy wierdo it is probably going to be weird, but when you are a fiery person it is different. You can make your eyes do different things while you look at them. Make them soft, then passionate, then angry. In that order. You have to coordinate it with your tempo.
ReplyDeleteNo not "badder than" TnP is the baddest and everyone knows that. You are just showing off, lying Loser.
ReplyDeleteClearly Ukan and I are on the same page. I love UKAn too. I am easy that way. he he . I Just like the bad boys. Any bad boy will do.
ReplyDeletesomeone is abusing the shit out of my name! Give me back my identity!!
ReplyDeleteWhat's the famous first line in Sherlock Holmes, Note?
ReplyDeleteI don't think a creepy person would find their own creepiness all that creepy. I can only speculate, though.
ReplyDeleteI was specifically talking about staring earlier, by the way, and why such would probably induce laughter, at least from me. You know, two blank faces, looking at each other and not blinking or shifting at all. If you don't find that creepy, funny, or tragic, well, pity.
I smell burning flesh and flushing face
ReplyDelete"I'm not a psychopath, Anderson. I'm a high-functioning sociopath. Do your research." -Sherlock Holmes (Sherlock 2010)
ReplyDeleteO I do agree-- it's incredible creepy and laughing is the only reaction
ReplyDeleteI Love that. Mwah
ReplyDeleteWomen want to be desired ultimately. Ironically so do sociopaths. We both want to be worshipped. The women sociopaths that I have met are some very sexually twisted people. Very violent if you are submissive, but if you are stronger than them they will treat you equal. Never submissive. If you are their equal they will try to dominate you.
ReplyDeleteme too
ReplyDeleteSo you have to keep the bitch in her place
ReplyDeleteMore along the lines that you don't show the bitch weakness.
ReplyDeleteOk so we're bored again? Christ.
ReplyDeleteDid someone call me?
ReplyDeleteHow many bitches are in this room right now?
ReplyDeleteJesus please save these folks from their boredom
ReplyDeleteIT is out of my hands
ReplyDeleteAnd to hell with missionary. In my experience, it's not them being prudish. It's women being lazy, oh, and I love this, "But I want to see your face."
ReplyDeleteBull. Shit. Maybe if your eyes were open instead of being lost to the world.
Please explain.
Anonymous said...
ReplyDeleteHow many bitches are in this room right now?
I'm a bitch, as well as a cunt( so I'm told)....lol
But seriously, you got a problem with bitches?
TheNotablePath said...
ReplyDeleteMore along the lines that you don't show the bitch weakness.
Yes, never show us bitches your weakness Not Able.
Ah
ReplyDeleteYes, got that just now. u r correct.
again :)
Actually bitches are the best fighters. I have lots of respect for the bitch. Very effective. But could be a little lonely.
ReplyDeleteI can't think ....if I were a man, would I enjoy the "cunt" nickname? Ha -prob!
ReplyDeleteWhy are you bored? I mean right now.
ReplyDeleteoh brother. predictability is retarded.
ReplyDeleteHow do you get a socio to drop his act?
ReplyDeleteDoes anyone have any ideas on how I can get my Socio ex to drop his act?
ReplyDeleteHmm
ReplyDeletei love tn -
ReplyDeleteAnd EVERYONE would rather masturbate. Fantasies are way better than flesh.
Jason -
I haven't figured out how to give myself blowjobs yet.
Does nobody think that perhaps Jason was being sarcastic here (rather than, as many seemed to assume, completely sincere)? Trying to make the point that there are things that are more physically enjoyable than masturbation, such as blowjobs, which you can't do yourself?
Jason, I assume this is accurate?
TNP. I was aware it was in the first of three episodes, my point was merely that they changed it because it sounds better, and if things are subject to change because of that they're unlikely to be accurate.
ReplyDeleteTo whoever is using my name, what can I say, I'm honoured, I never realised you idolised me so much, I mean i knew I was brilliant but...
Heh, someone used my name a few posts up as well.
ReplyDeleteThe thing is people think that by mimicking somebodies name, that they can use it and say things to lower their 'reputation'. The thing is, nobody here actually matters until they make a google account.
I can imagine the person who copied your name is/was laughing at the distress he thought he caused you. You should be honoured somebody actually wants your undivided attention on the internet.
I do not consider myself asexual but I have been, with the exception of a night or two, without sex for 10 years now. This is not for a lack of opportunity.
ReplyDeleteI am physically attracted to others but when I get to know them I do not consider them my equal. I do not fall for lust as I try and remain in control over my emotions. When I was younger I had a problem with anger. I do not like the lack of control that comes with lust.
My celibacy will end when I find someone I respect or consider and equal.
To the questions:
"How do you get a socio to drop his act?" and "Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get my Socio ex to drop his act?"
We are paranoid by nature, and logical thinkers. Approach him bluntly in acceptance of who he is.
Ex: "I have been doing some research online and believe I understand you a little better. I find it quite interesting. I want you to know you don't have to pretend, I would really like to know more about you."
Try and do this without emotion as this may annoy him. To be with a normal person a sociopath has to wear a normal mask, to be with a sociopath a normal has to wear a sociopath mask.
Sometimes sociopaths have been wearing masks so long it's hard to remember who we really were. Don't get your hopes up.
Jason -
ReplyDelete"Heh, someone used my name a few posts up as well."
Where?
Jason is a disgusting name, it's very middle class.
ReplyDeletePeople who say you should confront a sociopath with kindness are dumb, the sociopath despises weakness, give him an inch and he will take a mile. If you are in a relationship with me you are going to get emotionally raped every day, and physically on occasion, you know some hate rapists, but I see no bad in them, women who get raped radiate vulnerability, they don't get targeted for nothing.
ReplyDeleteA scorpion and a frog meet on the bank of a stream and the scorpion asks the frog to carry him across on its back. The frog asks, "How do I know you won't sting me?" The scorpion says, "Because if I do, I will die too."
ReplyDeleteThe frog is satisfied, and they set out, but in midstream, the scorpion stings the frog. The frog feels the onset of paralysis and starts to sink, knowing they both will drown, but has just enough time to gasp "Why?"
Replies the scorpion: "Its my nature..."
Adam said...
ReplyDelete"People who say you should confront a sociopath with kindness are dumb, the sociopath despises weakness, give him an inch and he will take a mile.If you are in a relationship with me you are going to get emotionally raped every day, and physically on occasion"
It's a misconception that all sociopaths are sadistic. Highly functional sociopaths have very good control over their actions. Therefor they will be in the comfort of their home when the news comes on about the pathetic sadistic sociopath who lacked control and was arrested by police.
Thank you for adding to the stereotype.
Dealing with emotional people is merely annoying.
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ReplyDeletefirst point: i am attacted to girls who are physically attractive at first, but have more respect for either strong or altruistic girls later on. strong ones are far more useful in my schemes and dont get emotionally hurt if i slip a little. altruistic ones dont help me directly but i can mimic them, which does help my plans. both give me objects i need to the extent of their character, which is useful. combine strong and altruistic and you will be my ideal pet, easy too.
ReplyDeletesecond point: physical contact means nothing, but the idea behind it does. for this reason one of my pets tried to condition me to touching and i got better at realizing it wasnt aggressive and feigning a response became easier.
first request: strategies for actually motivating myself to get girls. im not awkward at all around them, the problem is i just dont care enough to do anything. girls give me affectionate looks, touch me alot, talk to me with no reason, but it doesnt give me a "good feeling" at all. (best feeling is winning because of my skill against all odds, but the defeat of others means more than my victory) its as if ive already won, yet not defeated anyone in the process. that being said i want sex but not the people. any ideas for that?
third point: sociopath detection. i can recognize other psychopaths within seconds of seeing them somehow. i could do this at a young age and before i knew what "psychopath" meant. huge adrenaline rush on seeing them, impulse to kill them, which turns into a run impulse after i decide not to attack. i also think the phrase "that is like me" (thats the closest desciption i have) out of the two relationships ive had with psychopaths the superior one is always pursued by the inferior one. i have been both.
second request: how to romance/cooperate with psychopaths without losing the competition? (ive avoided this but seems like a good idea to have a psycho pet)
xxx
ReplyDeleteI'm not a big fan of sex. The difference for most people between masturbation and sex is in the "connection," the intersubjectivity of it. When you don't have that experience, when your "mirror neurons" don't fire at your partner's pleasure, when their only contribution is to be marginally more novel and surprising than the toys you keep in drawers, then that takes a lot of the shine off it. There's still the challenge, of course, in getting someone to be that vulnerable (and the risk-game of avoiding the same vulnerability) but those aren't specific to sex. Sociopathic promiscuity, for me, wasn't about revelling in the experience itself, it was very much a process of investigation, because every time it could Surprise me, I was entertained, and that had value. But there comes a point where you stop running into ideas that make you cock your head and wonder what that feels like, so you stop having quite the same interest in manipulating someone to enact those ideas.
ReplyDeleteIt also depends on the individual. Sociopathy doesn't define and codify every aspect of your psyche, some people are more conservative - more committed to the hyperobsessive maintenance of their façade - and for them I can see the potential vulnerability of sex being an unpleasant and pointless risk. I've certainly felt those twinges, it's the same impetus that makes lying so attractive; the need to keep clear-headed control of how I am perceived, to keep that buffer area of reserve between me and the world.
I find that I oscillate between craving it like nothing else and having absolutely no desire for it whatsoever. The trend seems to be that more and more I am losing interest. Perhaps the narcissistic side is taking over in that I'm not attracted to anyone (even those who are obviously very attractive). or I'm attracted to someone initially and it lasts for like 10 minutes. I dont know if anyone else has noticed this, but there is virtually no one who is good-looking close up. I start hooking up with someone and I notice one tiny think about them I don't like (and this can be something other than something in their appearance)and the erection completely vanishes and I end it. I kind of get off on making the other person feel like they're unattractive though. I make the whole thing seem like it is their fault. But I do it in a back-handed, nice way of course :) I've heard it said that whoever controls the frequency of sex in a relationship controls the relationship and that explains a lot for my past ones hah
ReplyDeleteI'm a 36 year old female that blrw up the only love i've ever felt from any man. I took this mans love for me and my two children and destroyed him...or so I thought. What I believe he actually did for about the last four months I guess is feed me back the same things he claims I fed him.
ReplyDeleteHis last emails to me read:
The sociopath's main tool is mimicking human emotions.
But how do they know what to mimic?
/By watching you.
How do you feedback them?
/By feeding them false information, upping the ante just as they do. A sociopath's ability to play act at being normal is only as good as the information she has available to her about what you are thinking.
/When her perceived chaos feeds you episodes of doubt, confusion and false information you simply feed her back an overload of similar doubt, confusion , false and misleading information, it ends up like one of those dry British farces where misunderstandings and confusions abound. But you're not confused because you know exactly what's going on.
Sit back and watch her nonsense ... That's all there is to it.
Sounds a lot like my life.
ReplyDeleteWho cares if they're in a relationship, what race they are and even as young as 13 and as old as late 40's if you can manipulate them well enough and as other sociopaths know, for long enough, you'll get your kicks.
does anyone here get intimidated by a sleazy bitch wearing latex?
ReplyDeletejason- you ill mannered cunt, it's turn to spell proper.
Group: I honestly can't believe this but i pulled my dads hair and watch my mom cry just... well bc i can. and yep im in my twenties hot and barely work so i dont do much but cause trouble and fuck
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