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Saturday, December 31, 2011

Female sociopaths

From LoveFraud:

There is actually very little research data available regarding sociopathy in non-criminals and in women. The little research that has been done reveals that sociopathy in women entails two or three main features that are similar to those found in men. Namely, female sociopaths lack empathy and enjoy manipulating and exploiting others. Violent and impulsive behavior is less common in sociopathic women. This fact may make them more dangerous, as they more easily blend in with the rest of society. 
A recent study of adolescent girls in detention performed by Crystal L. Schrum, M.A. and Randall T. Salekin, Ph.D. of the University of Alabama and reported in Behavioral Sciences and the Law, revealed the core qualities that best described young female sociopaths. The teens were callous and lacked empathy, had a grandiose sense of self worth and were conning and manipulative. They were also likely to engage in impersonal sexual relationships. Importantly, the researchers revealed that female sociopaths did not necessarily have “shallow emotions.” Again the lack of impulsivity and shallow emotions may make a female sociopath more difficult to spot.

188 comments:

  1. All of this resonates with me, with the exception that I am more predisposed to violence than exploitation and manipulation, which is, according to this article, atypical for a female.

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    1. Violence, exploitation, and manipulation are just different forms of the same thing. If you can keep yourself in check to avoid violence, you can channel that through exploitation and manipulation.

      Revenge and anger are best served freezing cold when they least expect it. I enjoy manipulation moreso than outright violence because, if done correctly, I will not be at fault for anything that befalls them.

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  2. I've been busy the last two days* (work, Ikea, the cinema; that kind of stuff) and I will be today as well (work, groceries, a party) so in case I'm not sober enough to tell you this when it's time: happy new year! I don't know how you're 2011 has been (mine was pretty neat), but let's hope your 2012 is even better!

    Why am I the ultimate example of being pedantic? :P

    * Funny how that works. I really wasn't looking forward to having to do all that (and more), but now that I'm actually doing it, I realize how much I like being really really busy. It's weird.

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  6. Casey Anthony comes to mind.

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  7. @tnp

    i'm not sure if i'd call aileen wuarnos a psychopath. her murders were very different to the typical serial killer. aileen killed for profit. the typical psychopathic serial killer is driven by fantasy, the notoriety and fear they create. they love to relive the crime in their mind, over and over again. wuarnos was severely abused by men all her life. i'd lean towards the borderline pd in her case. psychopathic serial killers are consumed with murder. usually they will keep a diary outlining the torture/rape methods they wish to execute on the victim. aileen didn't enjoy the killing.

    this serial killer will collect an item from his victim, usually panties. the item will be used for masturbation purposes, as the killer fantasizes about the crime. these killers are obsessed with gaining the highest body count, higher body count = more infamy. they see it as a contest.

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  8. Anon 559 I am not sure you can compare a female serial killer with males on principle. So often, so much of a male's killings involve his cock or his hormones. Obviously, since women do not have the same genetic makeup as men, there will be differences.

    It is entirely possible that Wornos was socio. Just because one is molested does not automatically a beeper make. If there is a genetic component... her dad was a child molester. Certainly she could be just an apple not falling far from the tree.

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  9. There is nothing sexy about a female sociopath. They are all gross lesbians anyway.

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    1. And this conclusion is based on what research, or experience? My my, ignorant, butthurt assumptions don't become anyone.

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  10. HA! I find it interesting that M.E. should put this quote up. It was copied and pasted in the comments section not long ago.

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  11. I have the urge to annoy TNP. Am I a sociopath?

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  12. I have the urge to bludgeon you to death, Monica. Does that make me a sociopath?

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  13. Bludgeon me to death.............................hmmmmm may be?

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  14. CRAZY BITCHES WITHOUT EMPATHY...... THAT'S THE FEMALE SOCIOPATH!!!!!!

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  15. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 7:23 AM

    TNP's Theme Song no 5 (You make it so easy)



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tw7guzT6ANI&feature=related

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  16. "There is such a thing as a functioning sociopath. One that chooses to operate on the status quo's idea of right and wrong, not because they agree but because it wouldn't be beneficial to go against the flow right then. Sociopaths are not bad people but, just like any group, the bad ones stand out the most. They are usually perfectly likable and there is no reason anyone would ever know otherwise unless you cross them. They dO attach affection to people, just not in the same way most people do. It is not born out of love but the possession of something that fills a specific void he or she may have in their life. Then they proceed to guard that territory jealously... don't we all?"

    What a pile of shit.

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  17. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 7:50 AM

    Alter ego I am working on a theme song for you. Stay tuned!

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  19. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 7:51 AM

    Theme Song for Alterego



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIDZmXb-r7Q

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  20. I've seen a couple of sociopathic girls and they were just arrogant morons. I've only seen one who was really charming, but I honestly spot them from a mile away.

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  22. Shut up David, no one's gonna help you because you're not good enough to be helped.

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  23. "but I honestly spot them from a mile away."

    I highly doubt it.

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    1. i can spot a female soc" with a few moments of conversation, one way is just ask what they prefer humans or animals?
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    2. This is true.

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    3. not a fair assumption...........being raised in a totally dysfunctional family having tereible relationships..........I prefer animals over poeple they are not judmentel and their igs no price to pay for their love.....no drama

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    4. but what if you don't like people or animals. What if you have no use for or desire for ether one

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    5. What if they prefer people though?Its just means for another game.

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    1. She likes parrots, has a paradise for her collection, and a very sweet and toxic relationship with her crazy drug addict, abusive beau famous for crazy. They were on Celebrity Rehab with that opportunistic doctor, Dr Drew. He's obsessed with narcissistic celebrities. You think Heidi Fleiss is a sociopath?

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    2. Wait, I think he's her ex. I'd love to see a video diary of that chick.

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  27. Anonymous said...
    "but I honestly spot them from a mile away."

    I highly doubt it.

    -> I don't think he's lying, I'm a sociopath and I spot other sociopaths really fast. They spot me too, as fast as I do. I think most sociopaths spot sociopaths very easily.

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  28. "I've seen a couple of sociopathic girls and they were just arrogant morons."

    Yes, female sociopaths are morons. I agree with this 100%. How could they possibly, be as intelligent, and charming, as they're male counterparts?

    Hi TNP :)

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    1. they give the best oral sex lol

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  30. @David There is a sociopath hand signal. Where have you been?

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  32. davidsocio01 said...
    " I'm a sociopath and I spot other sociopaths really fast. They spot me too ..."

    Interesting. I'm curious, what do you do when you spot a fellow socio? Do you give him or her winks, squeeze your lips, turn the bud ...?

    -> We avoid each other. We don't drink or spend christmas eve together. Why would we? I don't have anything to gain by being friends with someone like me and I don't get along with them anyway.

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  33. Hey girls. I'm having a little slumber party at my house tonight. Who's up for some doll mutilation, and lesbian exploration?! :D

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  34. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 9:18 AM

    Theme song for David--no 2



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X13Kb_DktHg

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  35. hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey'all!

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  37. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 9:37 AM

    Theme Song for Micheal Plunkett



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_T49m1TNboE&feature=related

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  38. My image has shit to do but my ego wants to play.

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  39. David -> you're not a sociopath, you're a victim. We're not the ones getting throwed in the garbage when we're kids, we're actually the ones throwing someone like you in it or manipulating the other morons into doing it for us. We're not the shy kids eating alone at the lunch table, we're actually the ones throwing food at those victims or stealing their food. I have never been bullied. I was disliked or feared. Sociopaths don't need time alone and aren't scared of people, you are. You're schizoid and narcissistic, and a victim, that's all. You keep saying people envy you because of your amazing life, then why do you keep coming here posting? Because you're bored? You're right, we envy your boredom and loneliness.

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  40. @David Do you mean you are going to be a fake therapist in order to get marks?

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  41. I'm very amused that M.E. is pulling from Lovefraud.

    I feel an amusing desire to go troll the boards over there. I'll probably decide I have better things to do though.

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  42. Strong people search for solitude and complying servants weak people search for strong people and other weak people.
    A strong person will not share whatever with another unless they need help and theres enough of it to be distributed.
    This is why sociopaths associate themselves with wolves when the game is big the pack is reunited.
    So my point there's no reason for sociopaths to gather up and read magazines together.

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  43. You guys give in to David EVERY TIME! He knows his prissy attitude is going to get you fixed on him!!!!!

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  45. remember not to quit on us before ya have told us what the shrink says david

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  47. Go away now David. Thanks.

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  48. A police stopped a woman who had been speeding frantically and asked to see her driver's licence.

    "I don't have a licence because of a DUI", said the woman.

    "In that case may I see the papers of the car?" asked the police.

    "This is my lover's car. I dropped him off the balcony and shoved the corpse in the trunk of his car", explained the woman.

    The police officer started feeling frightened so he decided it was best to call for backup. Four more patrol cars arrived sirens howling and the officer in charge ordered the trunk to be opened. It was empty.

    "Papers", the officer demanded from the woman still sitting behind the wheel.

    The woman handed over the papers and the drivers license. Everything was perfectly all right.

    "What the hell is the meaning of this?" the officer snapped.

    "That policeman who stopped me is weird somehow. Next he will probably claim that I was speeding", said the woman.

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  49. David you are the shit! Telling it how it is.

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  50. Hello Ladies and TNP

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  51. Frank is lonely, David. Frank would, like David's, cock in Franks mouth. Frank needs, to feel, loved, on New Years.

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  52. Don't make me come slap Franks cock out of your mouth David. I want it all to myself.

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  53. I prefer cock in my arse. Swirl around Missus bread!

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  54. Frank likes David as a man friend, like Frank likes TNP.

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  55. Bunny, would you like me to add chocolate chips to your arse before David sticks his cock in?

    I just love fresh baked arse bread to ring in the New Year! :-)

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  56. Try not to disturb the horse up me arse. I need to sell that shite later tonight.

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  57. UKan, Buddy, Frank knows how it feels to, be lonely, on New Years. Frank is here for ya, Buddy.

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  58. Where you been Buddy no homo. Frankfurt goes in the front door, only.

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  59. ^^That was not, the real Frank. This stress will drive Frank, to the bottle.

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  60. You're so stupid. What do you get out of posting such fucktarded ami/jason sounding crap?! It's not clever, funny, or insulting. Raise the bar already!

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  61. Frank is a serious personage.

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  62. aaaahhhhh its so funny.

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  63. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 11:57 AM

    Theme song for Frankfurt


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meuwKhPGItk

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  64. I mean the fact that you even know people think you're ami, and you're not offended by that, tells me you are just as stupid as she is. But then... you did admit to me you're too much of a pussy to go after people the way the abusive assholes you admire, do. How's those rape fantasies of yours? Not getting enough molestation stories off this site to get you wet? Pathetic.

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  65. So what's everyone doing tonight? Any fun plans for the New Years?


    wv: andlying

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  66. anonymous anonymous said...

    "You're so stupid. What do you get out of posting such fucktarded ami/jason sounding crap?! It's not clever, funny, or insulting. Raise the bar already!"

    I don't need to raise the bar. Fact is you are sitting at home alone in misery all day everyday on this blog. Your very existence is far more pathetic than my comments will ever be. You sit around here like the dying wounded animal you are, and every now and then it is fun to just poke you in your misery. You don't deserve anymore attention than that. Happy New Years!

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  67. That nasty Anon is Eden/Turk he he

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  68. Theme Songs for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 12:19 PM

    Eden's Theme Song


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yyi3Tv4cjcs

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  69. I should have picked a name that doesn't rhyme with yours, Haven. My fucking bad ;p
    I'd love to drunk text you for New Years... maybe you'll be online, on and off tonight? I'm feeling frisky... :)

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  70. ::smiles:: It's alright Raven. I think it's kind of fun.

    It is very likely that I'll be on line tonight. I have 4 different invites for the evening and as of right now I'm foregoing them all. I'm so over the holidays. I just want to stay home with my cat and maybe a bottle of wine. Heehee, I'm always in the mood for some frisky-ness though ;)

    Do you have plans?

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  71. "I don't need to raise the bar. Fact is you are sitting at home alone in misery all day everyday on this blog. Your very existence is far more pathetic than my comments will ever be. You sit around here like the dying wounded animal you are, and every now and then it is fun to just poke you in your misery. You don't deserve anymore attention than that. Happy New Years!"

    That is a really good start. I'd rather see this than your happytard bullshit. And by the by... I was never Turk. Try again you oh so perceptive loon! ;)

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  72. LOL Eden/Turk/Raven

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  73. "The teens were callous and lacked empathy, had a grandiose sense of self worth and were conning and manipulative. They were also likely to engage in impersonal sexual relationships"

    I'm a teen girl and most of us are like this. I don't like the word sociopath, because, like autism or gayness, it's not something you either have or don't have, it's a scale you can be anywhere on. If people resort to oversimplistic terminology then I think we'll be seeing alot more teen girls diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder than need to be. The traits listed above are pretty average, its the INABILITY to feel empathy that means you've got the full blown personality disorder. Most of us are able to turn off or at least tone down our empathic impulses when it's been useful to us, it's called survival instinct.

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  74. I'll probably need the distraction tonight. I'll be at my least favorite relative's party, and things have gotten way out of hand with my whole family in the last few days. Well... it's been bad for a year now, but last night my mother had a meltdown, and I think my fuse is down to a stump.

    I don't want to bring in the new year with violence.

    Are you with Tech Boy tonight?

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  75. Yeah they do say that how you spend this evening is how you'll spend the year. So ringing it in with violence would probably be a bad thing, haha. This is why I plan to have a drama free evening with my lovey cat.

    I don't think I'll be seeing Tech Boy tonight. He has plans out of state, though he wasn't sure he wanted to make the drive when we got up this morning. So maybe. We had quite the, eventful, evening last night, haha. Now he's starting to freak me out in entirely different ways haha. And crazily getting sweeter and sweeter and more considerate. Strange.

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  76. Spending hours reading comments in the forum before attacking sheep isn't strength. Attacking people without gaining any benefit from it isn't strenght. It's utter weakness. What you feel when you do it isn't strength, you delude yourself to think you're something while deep down you know you're more of a loser than some homeless worn down cheap heroin prostitute.

    Ironically David you just described yourself not me. I've gone against every person in this room. I take shots at anybody I can, if it doesn't work out I stop and leave them be because they are like me. The only person you've taken a shot at was Ami and you failed. You failed at leveraging even though you had her fucking address. She never left. She's even cheering you on now because she feels solidarity with you because she is a lonely wierdo just like you. A compliant victim just like you.

    By the way that anon wasn't me stupid. You have completely lost it. Misanthrope was right. If you go back and read Luke, Zwaq, and these other pompous retards we used to abuse like you they started saying the same thing. They thought I was everyone. You just don't want to believe that this many people think you are pathetic. What if it is true david. What if I am only UKan. Would that mean that you are as pathetic as we all say you are?

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  77. My darling Haven. When are you going to realize that whether or not your boy toy knows you're a beeper, his inner weirdness has it on the radar?
    You will never be lovers with someone much less weird than you. :p

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  78. Aileen was definitely a Psychopath. Stop being an idiot. It's not like a Psychopath has never been sexually abused.


    wv: dense

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  79. You may be right Raven. It's kind of comforting haha. I still think I alter his world view every time we have deep conversations though. Also he may have told me he loved me last night. I don't think it was actually a wholehearted confession of romantic love, given the scenario, but I also don't think he was expecting me to laugh and respond with "no you don't" either.

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  80. I'm wondering why M.E. picked Heidi Fleiss for the blog pic. I don't actually see evidence that she's a sociopath in the quick search I did.

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  81. @UKan The Chosen One makes you look like a fucking ant

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  82. His confession of love, was probably as true for him as any chemical attachment could be. After all, that's all that "falling in love" can be. Addiction. You can't have a mature love without the history, and going the distance. When you've weathered many storms; good and bad together, and the years have replaced the chemical with the comfortable... then you still find yourself needing each other, you have your mature love.

    I read that somewhere. :)

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  83. I have been thinking a lot about what you said, Missus. I have shrunk back from growth. I just wanted to be safe so much that I have not learned how to deal with things with confidence.

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  84. I'm so curious as to why M.E. would be looking up stuff on the female sociopath, at LoveFraud lol. Or anything sociopath for that matter? I went there once to see if I could recognize the style of anyone here, in the comments there.

    It was boring. Maybe it's the way they have those forums set up. Way too busy. I like a simple set up myself. Must be cuz I'm so moronic...

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  85. Goodbye Habeas corpus, hello police state. Fuck this country. NDAA was signed into law today in the States, and SOPA will too most likely. On top of that, the Supreme Court just ruled that Iran aided in the September 11th attacks against America, so now we have another war on the horizon.

    Anyone have suggestions for somewhere to move before nuclear winter? :P

    I'm not even a political person, never cared for the stuff, but even this shit is bugging me. Instead of having a revolt, this generation of kids sit outside banks tweeting about oppression. It's a fucking embarrassment.


    wv: rizings

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  86. @TNP Look up and find God.

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  87. God doesn't have the best track record with liberties and peace.

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  88. Ukan, where are you from?

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  89. Caroline, are you in a good enough position now to outweigh facing the growth you will have to do? Try imagining yourself the way your life would be if you were able to find your strength. Imagine the things you'd be capable of and the joys you would feel, and compare that to the emptiness you feel now.

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  90. Themes for SW RegularsDecember 31, 2011 at 2:58 PM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mRmKzxhMzwo

    Theme song for David and Ami

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  91. So I work for the fire department and I'm not supposed to talk about this shit to anyone, but sometimes I just feel the need to talk about some of this shit to someone, and this place seems as good as any.

    Tonight there was this guy who had been drinking for months on end I think and this one night he gets the idea that he will kill himself. So he goes to his car, pours gasoline over himself and lights it up. So far so good, eh?

    The guy's wife goes to a total panic mode, but he also has a son, only 9 years old but already a real trooper. He grabs the fire extinquisher and runs off towards the car to save his dad, succeeds, then calls the emergency number.

    So we come there and the mother is completely bananas, but the kid, the 9 years old trooper, says that his dad is in the bathroom and shows us the way. We open the door and the smell of ham hits us.

    There's the guy - he's taking a shit. Other than that there's very little to identify him as a human being, because he has 3rd grade burns all over. Some places we can see the bone and the flesh is just hanging. And we have heard that the ambulance won't come until 15 minutes later because it has been a busy night for them too.

    It is obvious to us that this guy won't live through the night, but he is alive now and will live for a few hours more. So somebody needs to go there and talk to this guy, and as it seems nobody else is able to do it so it has to be me. So I go there, sit by him and start talking. Just any stuff that comes to mind. So this guy, he doesn't say anything, but he turns his eyes at me and just stares at me, the eyes are the only thing still left of him, and I can see he clearly understands his situation from those eyes. But he doesn't say anything, he doesn't make a sound, he just stares at me with those fucking eyes.

    About 15 minutes later the medics come, and even though those guys have seen a whole lot in their line of business the smell and the sight hits them back like a blow from a fucking baseball bat. But they take him away. Later tonight the guy will die, but he is probably still breathing.

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  92. You did good, buddy. I am sorry you went through that.

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  93. Why didn't you talk to the boy? And tell him what a hero he was, and how he sshouldnt have had to see all that, but he was the bravest strongest boy you'd ever seen? Fuck the dying ass hole that jjust did that to him.!

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  94. The other guys did that, the ones who couldn't face the smell and the guy in the bathroom. We go by the book - we can't end anyone's misery before they die and somebody must always talk to them if they are alive and conscious, and if we have the manpower for it of course. It's part of the job.

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  95. @Missus I have learned a lot since I came to SW. I got a promotion in work which will challenge me in personal development------a lot. I want to take down some of my dependency needs and fears, as my personal goal.

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  96. @Fire Fighter

    If the story you just told is true. You should be in awe of what you've just witnessed. A new year approaches. Let the weak burn themselves out of this world, and the strong continue to thrive.

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  97. Eden/Raven you are such a fucking poseur.

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  98. A poseur of what anonymous? And the name is simply, Raven. Surely you can see that without having it pointed out to you?

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  99. I know many of you will think I'm just a dumb loser, risking my neck to save others, weak or strong, for nickels and dimes. And in a way you are right - there is a lot more money to make in the drug business for example I'm sure. But let me get this one thing straight:

    None of you, strong or weak, will be laughing at me when you are trapped in a burning building and we come to save your sorry asses. We won't be asking about your contributions to the society, we will go by the book and save them regardless.

    And make no mistake about it, we have a few sociopaths in the job as well - that's what inspired me to come to this site. There are definitely some upsides in working for the fire department as well. If you are into pussy for example fire fighter is way more sexier than a clerk in a bank, believe me. Can't really compare with drug dealers tho because I've never known any.

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  100. How interesting that you should bring up drug dealers. And why do you come here to vent, then turn bitter sounding all of a sudden?

    I don't see anyone laughing at you. Yet.

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  101. There we go, Raven - I have seen enough of this site to know that the conspiracy theories and clever banterings are part of the game so I have kept quiet so far. And I will keep quiet in the future as well. I just needed to share this story with someone and this seemed like the only place to do it and I feel much better now thank you. I probably won't be posting here again, and I'm genuinely disinterested about how you will feel about it.

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  102. LOL Well Happy New Year to you, just the same. :D

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  103. @Fire Fighter Don't listen to losers who will remain unnamed. You are a hero. Anyone with any sense knows that. You have to walk through the excrement on this site to find the gems. There are a few such as ME, who runs the blog, and others. Hope you come back. If not, Happy New year and THANK YOU for all you do!

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  104. "There are definitely some upsides in working for the fire department as well. If you are into pussy for example fire fighter is way more sexier than a clerk in a bank, believe me."

    I thought this was funny. What the hell does this have to do with your story, or why you decided to post something? I'll take a brainy desk clerk, over a moody fire fighter who comes to a Sociopath blog to cry, any day of the week.

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  105. @Fire Fighter

    That was a really, amazingly difficult thing you did. Obviously not something that just anyone could do. Your job is not easy, the things you see every day aren't easy. I couldn't do it. I just don't have the ability to care that much. I'm glad there are people out there that do though. What you do isn't weak or stupid. You never know what the people you save could influence or be a part of, what events could come of what you do. Even if it's just that a wife comes home to the man that she loves one more time. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't let people give you flak for it.

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  106. Eden/Raven, Even UKan and MK, your hero's, would have respect for a real hero like this man, but you are too much of a poseur to even figure out that.

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  107. saying firefighters are heroes is like giving everyone on the team a trophy for participating

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  108. raven stole my real-life fake name. how annoying.

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  109. "Eden/Raven, Even UKan and MK, your hero's, would have respect for a real hero like this man, but you are too much of a poseur to even figure out that."

    I don't have heroes first of all. Second, this is how his story reads to me:

    Hi, I'm a Fire Fighter who picked a blog full of people without empathy, to tell my sad story. I also happen to be the only fire fighter who was brave enough to talk to a burned up man out of ALL the others, and even though none of you bothered insulting me after I told you this story (very poorly); I'm going to get very defensive anyway, and call everyone here a bunch of sorry asses... while also pointing out that I can get lots of pussy in my line of work IF that's what I'm in to. After throwing my weird tantrum, I'm going to suddenly sound more intelligent than I did when I told my story... and storm off not caring what any of you think of me.

    I don't care how anyone else here reads the story. I stick by my instincts.

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  110. Nice, anon 5:25 - like some of us are just jerking off while others are doing all the work. Fuck it - again I got provoked by a provocation. You guys just do your thing and forget about me, okay?

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  111. Firefighter said: "I know many of you will think I'm just a dumb loser, risking my neck to save others, weak or strong, for nickels and dimes."

    I, for one, think you *kick ass*, firefighter. Not many people could witness what you did and not lapse into hysterics; if your story is true, it belies a core of strength and courage in your character. Keep on fighting the good fight.

    Happy New Year's everyone.

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  112. @Firefighter
    Don't listen to idiots like Raven. Most people, here, are not like she.

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  113. Courage is a bullshit illusion. It really means stupidity. Nobody is going to pat you on the back for being courageous, but we do need people like you to do our dirty work.

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  114. Nobody is going to pat you on the back for being a coward either, anon 5:41. But we do need people like you to piss on.

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  115. Help me out here guys. Who's a sociopath and who isn't? Ukan is a sociopath for sure, but what about the rest?

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  116. UKantellthedifferenceDecember 31, 2011 at 6:04 PM

    You are not, for sure.

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  117. Is it my turn to be a sociopath yet? I can totally be one. k, thxs.

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  118. Are you the real UKan or is UKan only using his main account?

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  119. UKanonhismainaccountDecember 31, 2011 at 6:15 PM

    UKan only uses his main account.

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  120. I think a sociopath respects a firefighter.

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  121. @Haven

    Do it. But I think your carriage will turn back into a pumpkin at midnight. ;p

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  122. @Raven

    Shut up little bitch

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  123. @UKantellthedifference said...
    You are not, for sure.

    =( But I want to be.

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  124. You peoples are stupid. Raven is Eden.

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  125. Woot! Oh wait, that was probably too emotional.

    Hey man, I mean, whatever, it's cool. Everyone's a jackass anyways. I'm just gonna do whatever I want. (for another 2.5 hours)

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  126. Eden, since you are a stupid asshole who has mush for brains, at least shut up.

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  127. I'm pretty you will Eden. As soon as my cock reaches your mouth and stops you from talking, little whore.

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  128. Alright I'm bored with this whole being a sociopath thing. Screw it.

    I'm starting to wish I was drinking.

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  129. Do sociopaths get nose jobs?

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  130. I was thinking how bad you look in a mug shot. Urrrrhg Hope I never get there.

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  131. Happy New Year. Thank you for the blog. You are changing lives. Mine is one. Bless you, friend.

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  132. When you sociopaths become whatever a person wants, it is like heroin to a broken person. That is why they don't forget you and yearn for you, maybe forever.

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  133. You drinking yet, Haven? I am.

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  134. Not really. I had a small glass of caramel Bailey's, but believe it or not, after last night I'm a little boozed out. Whacha havin'?

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  135. Chapagne... HELL Freak'n O! I'm in no mood to wait. Did your guy go out of town?

    And Monica... You don't have to be with a sociopath! There's plenty of dick in the sea! Please get your pussy serviced soon!

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  136. Haha, please bitch no need to wait. Drink up and have one for me!

    Yeah, thankfully. I don't think I have the energy to have conversations tonight. There were way too many scary ones yesterday. Fortunately sex is a great way to change the subject.

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  137. "There were way too many scary ones yesterday."

    Explain please.

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  138. @Raven I have to love someone, so that narrows down the pool.

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  139. Firefighter isn't a cool job because you save people, but the thrill is awesome and fire's beautiful. <3

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  141. LMAO Haven. Sounds like he's the girl, not you. Why do people keep coming up with the same 'ol dream.

    Monica... you will never find love with a sociopath. Not the kind you're looking for. Why can't you accept that? Ask me how I know you will never find that kind of love with a sociopath....

    Well, my New Years Eve is lovely. I have a missing sibling. She is going to be a wanted soon, along with her sociopathic ex-husband, who talked her in to running with him. My mother is no longer speaking to me as of.... oh.... roughly 20 minutes ago. So sad :( And I'm stuck here with my the one woman circus act, of the century!

    Whatever. I'm still in a very good mood!

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  142. Why did you delete your comment?

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  143. I thought I posted it twice =(

    Yeah, idk. I don't get this at all. I can know how to do the actually dating thing, and I can know how to do the keeping myself shut down and enjoying the sex thing. This whole things changing all over the place is confusing. My emotions don't work that way. They're all in or all out, there isn't a kinda maybe or this is growing slowly. ::sigh::

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  144. Eh... time to set sail I'd say. He's too in to you already. Which sounds nothing like how you painted him 2 weeks or so ago, yeah? I don't know... people are all fucked up chemically though. It might pass if you give it enough time... but the kid thing is not something people compromise on, when they're the traditional types.

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  145. I think guys feel a need to play it cool. They're all socially programmed to not display any real sentiment because it's not manly so they're all aloof and idiotic then once they realize that it's not working they stop screwing around. It's a bunch of games.

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  146. Happy Fucking New Year

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  147. I've got to get off now. Too much crazy shit going on.
    See ya.

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  150. What if a sociopath doesn't care about power, what do they have left then?

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  151. The desire for power isn't as strong as the need for control. They're not the same thing, but close enough to get confused with often.

    I don't always desire power, but I'm not always hungry or tired, either. Unless I'm totally obsessed with something specific at the time, I'm usually not always thinking about or desiring the same things constantly.

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  152. Michael Martin PlunkettJanuary 1, 2012 at 1:57 AM

    firefighter is a socio job ya get to be a pyro see burning bodies an make ye hero worshippers wet ya get thrills ya seek risk every fires like a bpd woman for the taking ya get easy puss at the days end haha.

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  153. http://www.google.com/imgres?q=braciole&um=1&hl=en&sa=N&biw=1024&bih=475&tbm=isch&tbnid=rrIK0h-JBaa_TM:&imgrefurl=http://www.theitalianwineconnection.com/My_Italian_Wine_Food_Pairings/campania_food_red_wine_pairings.php&docid=9lgQ5Qe-6ikKKM&imgurl=http://www.theitalianwineconnection.com/My_Italian_Wine_Food_Pairings/braciole_di_maile_in_italian_wine_cooking.jpg&w=500&h=374&ei=3S8AT5rnMMrLtgfCvu3PBg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=429&vpy=170&dur=24707&hovh=194&hovw=260&tx=150&ty=146&sig=106720848091913450878&page=5&tbnh=113&tbnw=158&start=44&ndsp=10&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:44

    Happy New Year to SW

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  154. i dislike being around people... :3 i look for humour in everything and i find if i look in on my life everyune around me is tiny... irelevant i look to relationships for sex. i lost my virginity before my 1st kiss :) never regreted it. he was my "friends" boyfriend. i have a boyfriend now though... hes. :) comforting? thats normal ... i dont feel superior to everyone.. just .more enlightened.. im not a bitch or self rightous.. i like to watch :) and when people mess up from petty mistakes.. i have a reason to smile.. pat their backs and watch them mess up again.. i get pleasure from knowing i can manipulate people.. wether you need to key in on there soft spot for sappy soft hearted and easily taken advantage of to being a hardened uncaring partyer lol .. people really dont see how easy it is? i obsess over things and crave to be obbsessed .. i want to make others want and i want to watch them crave that which they cant have to their point of breaking.. :) chaos is entertaining . i hate. being. bored. but this << is normal.. :) i still crave and vie for normality .. surrond myself with "friends and love" i used to hurt myself.. but i dont anymore ;p is this being a sociopath? or a teenage girl :o

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    1. besides is it so easy to point out whose diffrent and whose fake or real within a sea of people looking to define themselves as well being "diffrent" lol jw xD i dont try to be shallow.. its hard putting alot of myself into doing things.. i cant stay with things Dx it just gets boring once i learn the basics. i want to need something instead of just wanting and needing to want and consume all i can take before it dies in my arms and reduces to nothing are alot of people like this?... i find myself asking strangers because i see and hear and read whats "normal" whats "right or wrong" its easy to do and comply with all the basic morals and social standards .but it gets boring? .. is that how everyone is? the world in black in white, do we blur the lines on purpose just to have a lil fun? i just wonder :) gimme some feedback ;p

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  155. There are sociopaths in the governments working as public servants.
    I met one over 2 years ago. I have a paternal figure who is sociopathic,
    so I could tell the public servant was one also.
    They have different behaviour and are used as ''enforcers" to rough up
    people considered outsiders, risky or problems to their business and money
    making.

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  156. As I come from a family of sociopaths, he did not stand a chance.
    We chewed him up and proverbially ate him, and his fellow pack of
    weaker narcissistic sociopaths.

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  157. She promised me a great life a new adventure beautiful life if only I would give up my life I had built. She wanted it to be ours so I agreed then she became a distant evil monster after I gave it all up. She ran out on her children 25 years ago and me now id hoped for a second chance . I put us in therapy and that's when I think she knew she had to run to the next Richard

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