Even before I had ever heard the word sociopath applied to me, I always sort of identified with this song and it does seem to accurately portray the ups and downs with being with a female sociopath.
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Billy Joel caught flack from many feminist groups when that song
ReplyDeletewas first released. Perhaps a "woman" like that is every man's
"wet dream," like a rollercoaster ride he can get on and off of at will.
Cunning sociopath gals are more then aware of this fact, and use it
to thier favour.
Now, a few comments on the 800 pound Gorilla in the room: M.E.'s
appearence. Here's my two cents. M.E., how could you describe your
looks as "average?' You must have eye problems! You are a VERY, VERY beautiful girl! When you posed before the camera, you were
only doing what starlets have done at casting calls for centuries.
You have a very exotic, slightly oriental look. Something akin to Jodi
Arias. But you have evaded, and God willing, will continue to evade
Jodi Arias fate. Through a combination of inner strength, (Genticts?)
and moral upbringing you have suceeded. If you maintain your health
retain your eye pleasing appearence, and retain your sanity, you have
nothing to worry about. It's a shame fellow Mormon Travis Alexander
never lived to meet you. He would have been a happy, still living man.
I've ALWAYS related to this song, too. Just curious M.E., what is your zodiac sign?
ReplyDeleteawesome. love this song; i remember us playing them on the vinyl records on the big honking antique record player. The 33, the 45's. we had billy joels. Flash back. funny, I related to this song being a borderline. (Probably a lot of people do). it was always flipped trying to take care of me., then flipped again, trying to take care of others. i found so much enjoyment in serving someone, taking care of others. but I lost myself. i had no identity, trying to please. I saw myself in others. Kinda kakapoop vomit in away. this is captivating. a sociopath is the other side of the spectrum in a lot of other ways. and in order for me to heal. i had to accept me, myself fully -- for who I was. god dam, brilliant. captivating M.E. you also like angelia Jolie; I am so intruded by her. and princess diana,…both labeled borderlines under psychiatry’s tainted eye. but, I read in your blog, that the borderline is almost like a part-time sociopath in a sense. the labels annoy me, but just to put a name on it, I guess.
ReplyDeletei think these are all normal traits that we are possibly born with, and it builds from our environment. Some get stuck in a personality trait I guess.
I’ve already listened to this song 7 times on my speakers, thanks M.E.
As women, it is in our best interests to be a pain in the ass. Men can't value what they fully possess for very long. As soon as a woman begins to accept asshole behavior from a man he understands that the chase is done.
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as do homo's
Deletedepends on what you mean by love.
DeleteIs it A? Some crave the validation an asshole can provide because of the narcissistic supply of pleasing a hard to please man.
Or could it be B? Some don't know that what constitutes asshole behavior because they have no frame of reference suggesting that men could be different.
Or what about C? Some pity the asshole and do their best to compassionately support him as they are extricating themselves from his tentacles.
Very few women who consistently date assholes do it because they like mistreatment. The disproportionate number of assholes who get dates has something to do with the fact that dating is a numbers game. The more "at-bats", the more "hits". Assholes hit on women with no respect for prior commitments on either side. Assholes have trouble hearing no. They typically think "game on". Assholes tend to push for sexual bonding faster than a partner would like. All of these things positively relate to being involved with women who have obsessive feelings (often negative) about them. They make the mistake of thinking a fixation is the same thing as an attraction. It is not. Women might date assholes at a disproportionate rate because assholes make themselves available at a disproportionate rate.
None of these things are love.
once you think of an asshole as love (bf/father etc) the emotions (brainchemicals) gets seen as love even if it's counterproductive for your (mental)health
DeleteButt...... what if the asshole happens to be a genuine "good" guy? An anomally. And... he realizes that alpha will most likely be perceived as "assholio". And..... he is extraordinary in the bedroom, and.... completely captivating outside of the bedroom. And.... he likes being devoured! Delicious?? Who gets bored first??
Deletefrom the link I gave:
ReplyDeleteThere are genuine assholes who are loved, and there are spiteful assholes who get nowhere. The difference is crucial.
Uncaring asshole = success with women.
Caring asshole = failure with women.
When women say they don’t fall for assholes, they are thinking of the second kind. A caring asshole comes from a place of bitterness and spite. His assholery is reactive rather than proactive. He is poor at calibrating which women will be responsive to his dick attitude. Caring assholes are crassly insulting and transparently invested in the outcome of their game.
Uncaring assholes are assholes as a consequence of their indifference. It is the aloofness of the man she loves that drives women crazy with obsession*, and that aloofness is manifest as asshole behavior. An uncaring asshole demonstrates clearly in his body language and tone of voice, not to mention his dearth of words, that he could take her or leave her.
I read the blog post and a few others. I think that the author is brilliant if he is looking to date only narcissistic and borderline women. Women who don't have ambivalent or avoidant attachment histories tend to move on once a man makes it clear her presence in his life doesn't mean much.
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DeleteIt's my experience that being an uncaring asshole can work on all women.
DeleteIt's not that she doesn't mean much to him. It's that he isn't going to put up with her if she starts with irrational bullshit.
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asshole=alfa?
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Deletethe right kind of asshole = alpha
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Speaking of rectums, why don't you just try the homosex. You might find it to your liking.
DeleteSpeaking from experience?
ReplyDeleteIs there a cover? Song sounded too fruity.
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It's the kissing that bothers me.
DeleteI dont like kissing either...
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DeleteSame for the reverse...plenty of irrational fellows out there.
DeleteIf you hang up the phone on them they will kiss your ass.
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