Oppressive behaviour from above awakens the inner psychopath in many "sleepers". When society "tightens screws" for weak people some weak folks discover things inside that are anything but weak. Almost like a hot house for hollow folks, many states "sow seeds" that will develop & blossom with time. The state usually then blame movies or goth rock when the "springtime" comes, but in reality these states have become keen farmers..
Cunning is simply the capacity to reason without moral roadblocks. It doesn't mean you have to act on your conclusions. Machiavelli does a wonderful job explaining how to be "cunning" in the Prince.
But here's the thing- once you know how to be cunning you must choose how to use that knowledge. Do you leverage it to exploit others who haven't learned to think as you do? Or do you simply remain mindful of all the options and still operate according to principle. The knowledge of how to be cunning is a valuable thing in terms of neutralizing aggression in a way that causes the least amount of pain.
The hardest thing for many people about an interaction with a sociopath is that teh process strips away innocence and illusion. The basest motives are exposed. Some people can't bear the pain of seeing the dark side of human nature and just become closed off and cynical. But some people learn to accept the unasked for wisdom that a battle with tyranny forces one to acquire.
Wisdom is integration of both ideals and cunning. The experience with a psychopath is a crucible through which a new understanding is forged. No one is the same post tyranny (or post psychopath). Some souls crack. Others get stronger. There's a lot of mystery as to why any outcome occurs...
I know someone who was raised by a psychopath. She suffered extreme emotional trauma, the extent of which I have only an inkling. She escaped and has learned to 'make it' on her own, but uses cunning to protect herself, and also very effectively uses cunning to protect the feelings of people she's involved with. She's terrified of hurting people to such an extent that discussing even the most minor problems or issues throws her into such a profound rage that she threatens to end the relationship if conversation continues.
She says that everything is fine, always, and the only problems we have are the ones I create by trying to talk to her. However, by pressing, I am able to learn of concerns she has that appear quite serious and that stem from what I believe is a mixture of truth and misconception. This allows me to address them, but getting to that point requires me to navigate an extremely hostile environment and risk her terminating the relationship.
Personally, I think that pretending issues don't exist doesn't prevent those issues from influencing behavior. Maybe I'm wrong, but when someone's behavior changes towards me, I assume there is an underlying cause (regardless of whether one is consciously aware of the cause). I know what she wants, which is to never talk about anything that could be remotely construed as a problem. I may even be capable of restraining myself such that I can pull that off.
Since I'm almost done rambling, my questions are pretty simple. Do you have any insight on this, and what would you suggest I do?
Your friend sounds like her trauma is causing her to act like a borderline. No doubt she has some complex PTSD going on. As much as I applaud your understanding and compassion I do caution you about becoming deeply attached to this person because her emotions are so labile. When people are parented by disordered people they have extreme issues with trust and use a lot of defense mechanisms like splitting (to see someone as all good or all bad, not as a regular person). People like this can turn on you in an instant and all the rage that has been stored up gets blasted at you.
So- I think you are smart to never talk about deep stuff with her. keeping it superficial keeps you out of the line of fire. You can be compassionate, yet detached. This isn't failing to be a good friend- it's recognizing that whatever issues she has are hers, not yours.
I know this may sound cynical- but I suggest treating her emotions like the emotions of a preschool child- in many ways she is still stuck there because of what happened to her. That means recognizing that the relationship needs to require a lot of patience a low expectations on your end. If it's too much, I suggest letting the relationship die a slow, non-dramatic death. Your heart matters too, Erik, and there are many people out there who could use a good friend.
Eric what Mach described is right. The friend you describe sounds borderline with ptsd. She threatens to end it because she doesn't have the coping skills to deal with her trauma inside, it's causing her to spiral in a defensive mode of splitting. Which is just a false self. She's not trying to sabotage it - she just might lack the skills in talking about it effectively, constructively. Talking about it may cause her to shift into a mode of destruction in herself - or she may project onto others around her. So it's safe to say everything is just fine. Borderline is just a set of symptoms. It took the sociopath in my life to deal with my own borderline... because my husband is not emotionally driven, whatsoever. He just listens and validates now. We even have a skills board that he points too now. Lol. He took the time to go to many appts to see what was the solution to my own borderline inside. You might see your friend open up and shift nicely if you validate her experiences. Hold her. My husband holds me when I revert back into the childlike person. He says I'm safe now. If you cant handle your friend -- then guide her to someone who can help. But if you are a sociopath, or even think like one....you probably have the skills inside of you to help her. It was my SO's rational that help me most. And he wasn't emotionally drained like an empath would be. Good luck. :)
Thanks for the advice! I looked up borderline personality disorder and found that with therapy, 86% of patients can go into complete remission (no symptoms for at least 2 years). She's going to go talk to a psychiatrist (she's been to others previously) with the difference being that she'll be honest with them this time. She said PTSD fits her exactly, but she was ashamed of equating her childhood experiences with those of war veterans, so she never brought it up before.
"We see that life, composed, of this mind and body, is in a continual constant transformation and flux. There is always the possibility of radical change. Every moment-not just poetically or figuratively, but literally- every moment we are dying and being reborn, we and all of life." --Sharon Salzberg
Whether your dealing with (or have dealt with) a psychopath of not, we're all growing and changing every day. All of life is a learning opportunity.
I picture myself as a macroorganism. I am a planet for other micro entities, and their existence, even though we can`t see them, shape our life experience. I am not an intestine, but my intestine life as an organ has profound impact on me, more so than any tyrant I could cross. But aren`t my organs tyrants too? I am completely submitted to their mechanisms, and even if I wanted to leave them I couldn`t because consequence is death. Yet, I try. From the moment I regain consciousness in the morning I find myself constantly enamored with the concept of damage done to the body in order to gain a greater more purposeful existence. I don`t fear death because its inevitable. I do apprehend pain though, because I know it can be changed and that I don`t like it. I recognize a possibility that I could fail using this art. I don`t want to be addicted, it is a possibility that sickens me because I don`t want to lose the little controlI have over the ultimate tyrant.
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We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Otis Darko to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don’t want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Otis Darko to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Otis the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Otis Darko with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Otis Darko asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don’t know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Otis Darko was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can’t give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com if you are asked for material to do the spell don’t go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.
I am Maria David from Spain When I eventually found testimonies about this spell caster DR OJEKERE how he helped many people to get their lovers and broken homes back,I read on how help some get pregnant, Lottery, even heal any type of disease i contacted him through his email address greatestlovespelltemple@gmail.com because my boyfriend whom i really love with all my heart and also love me too, but suddenly change and turned his back on me and hated me with passion I was absolutely desperate to get my boyfriend back. Life without my boyfriend was a real mess for me and my parent I wanted a dramatic change and I thought magic could be the solution. After discussing the resolution with DR OJEKERE, he gave me hope that he will restore my relationship back because he already engaged me. I felt confident that he will actually make my boyfriend to return home and he did! It’s fantastic what this great spell caster have done for me, his help is priceless! I don't know what I would have done without DR OJEKERE. did his job so well he is organized and highly functional, i believe he is the best spell caster i can count on when it comes to all kinds of spell, I was floored that his spells worked, if you need help, contact he via email:Again his email address is greatestlovespelltemple@gmail.com I assure you things will turn around for you
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My Name is AZIBA OLUBOISE. I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called otisdarko60@yahoo.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS... I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO... WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS; otisdarko60@yahoo.com ......HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY ... CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL: otisdarko60@yahoo.com............YOU CAN ALSO ADD HIM UP ON WHATSAPP USING THIS MOBILE NUMBER:+2348077526136
My name is Midred Jackson from Michigan I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in November 28th 2015 last year on a business summit. i ment a man called DR OTIS DARKO. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address: otisdarko60@yahoo.com
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ReplyDeleteAll tyrants are cunning, but sometimes their victims are
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And when I do play at that level, it makes me feel really ugly.
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Oppressive behaviour from above awakens the inner psychopath in many "sleepers". When society "tightens screws" for weak people some weak folks discover things inside that are anything but weak. Almost like a hot house for hollow folks, many states "sow seeds" that will develop & blossom with time. The state usually then blame movies or goth rock when the "springtime" comes, but in reality these states have become keen farmers..
ReplyDeleteCunning is simply the capacity to reason without moral roadblocks. It doesn't mean you have to act on your conclusions. Machiavelli does a wonderful job explaining how to be "cunning" in the Prince.
ReplyDeleteBut here's the thing- once you know how to be cunning you must choose how to use that knowledge. Do you leverage it to exploit others who haven't learned to think as you do? Or do you simply remain mindful of all the options and still operate according to principle. The knowledge of how to be cunning is a valuable thing in terms of neutralizing aggression in a way that causes the least amount of pain.
The hardest thing for many people about an interaction with a sociopath is that teh process strips away innocence and illusion. The basest motives are exposed. Some people can't bear the pain of seeing the dark side of human nature and just become closed off and cynical. But some people learn to accept the unasked for wisdom that a battle with tyranny forces one to acquire.
Wisdom is integration of both ideals and cunning. The experience with a psychopath is a crucible through which a new understanding is forged. No one is the same post tyranny (or post psychopath). Some souls crack. Others get stronger. There's a lot of mystery as to why any outcome occurs...
I know someone who was raised by a psychopath. She suffered extreme emotional trauma, the extent of which I have only an inkling. She escaped and has learned to 'make it' on her own, but uses cunning to protect herself, and also very effectively uses cunning to protect the feelings of people she's involved with. She's terrified of hurting people to such an extent that discussing even the most minor problems or issues throws her into such a profound rage that she threatens to end the relationship if conversation continues.
DeleteShe says that everything is fine, always, and the only problems we have are the ones I create by trying to talk to her. However, by pressing, I am able to learn of concerns she has that appear quite serious and that stem from what I believe is a mixture of truth and misconception. This allows me to address them, but getting to that point requires me to navigate an extremely hostile environment and risk her terminating the relationship.
Personally, I think that pretending issues don't exist doesn't prevent those issues from influencing behavior. Maybe I'm wrong, but when someone's behavior changes towards me, I assume there is an underlying cause (regardless of whether one is consciously aware of the cause). I know what she wants, which is to never talk about anything that could be remotely construed as a problem. I may even be capable of restraining myself such that I can pull that off.
Since I'm almost done rambling, my questions are pretty simple. Do you have any insight on this, and what would you suggest I do?
Your friend sounds like her trauma is causing her to act like a borderline. No doubt she has some complex PTSD going on. As much as I applaud your understanding and compassion I do caution you about becoming deeply attached to this person because her emotions are so labile. When people are parented by disordered people they have extreme issues with trust and use a lot of defense mechanisms like splitting (to see someone as all good or all bad, not as a regular person). People like this can turn on you in an instant and all the rage that has been stored up gets blasted at you.
DeleteSo- I think you are smart to never talk about deep stuff with her. keeping it superficial keeps you out of the line of fire. You can be compassionate, yet detached. This isn't failing to be a good friend- it's recognizing that whatever issues she has are hers, not yours.
I know this may sound cynical- but I suggest treating her emotions like the emotions of a preschool child- in many ways she is still stuck there because of what happened to her. That means recognizing that the relationship needs to require a lot of patience a low expectations on your end. If it's too much, I suggest letting the relationship die a slow, non-dramatic death. Your heart matters too, Erik, and there are many people out there who could use a good friend.
Eric what Mach described is right. The friend you describe sounds borderline with ptsd. She threatens to end it because she doesn't have the coping skills to deal with her trauma inside, it's causing her to spiral in a defensive mode of splitting. Which is just a false self. She's not trying to sabotage it - she just might lack the skills in talking about it effectively, constructively. Talking about it may cause her to shift into a mode of destruction in herself - or she may project onto others around her. So it's safe to say everything is just fine. Borderline is just a set of symptoms. It took the sociopath in my life to deal with my own borderline... because my husband is not emotionally driven, whatsoever. He just listens and validates now. We even have a skills board that he points too now. Lol. He took the time to go to many appts to see what was the solution to my own borderline inside. You might see your friend open up and shift nicely if you validate her experiences. Hold her. My husband holds me when I revert back into the childlike person. He says I'm safe now. If you cant handle your friend -- then guide her to someone who can help. But if you are a sociopath, or even think like one....you probably have the skills inside of you to help her. It was my SO's rational that help me most. And he wasn't emotionally drained like an empath would be. Good luck. :)
DeleteThanks for the advice! I looked up borderline personality disorder and found that with therapy, 86% of patients can go into complete remission (no symptoms for at least 2 years). She's going to go talk to a psychiatrist (she's been to others previously) with the difference being that she'll be honest with them this time. She said PTSD fits her exactly, but she was ashamed of equating her childhood experiences with those of war veterans, so she never brought it up before.
DeleteAwesome. Good for her for taking those steps. :)
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ReplyDeleteMy Name is Jane Mercy, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Otis Darko spell temple, on what he has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband with his great spell, I was married to this man called Mathew we were together for a long time and we love each other but when I was unable to give him a child after 2 years, he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man. My friend gave his email to me and asked me to contact him but I didn't want to because I doubted at first but later reconsidered because it's so rear for a man to be as powerful like she said. So I contacted her through this email ( otisdarko60@yahoo.com ) You won’t believe this when I contacted this man and told him my problems he cast the spell and my ex came back begging on his knees and asking me to forgive him. Not only that after a month I miss my monthly flow, when I went to my doctor, he confirm that I am pregnant so I told myself that I will testify to the whole wide world about the wonders of the powerful man if I give birth successfully. I am so happy today because I am a mother of a bouncing baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Shakes Spear for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of the following situations :
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ReplyDeleteMy Name is Dan Anelos ..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called otisdarko60@yahoo.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: otisdarko60@yahoo.com... CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED OTIS DARKO ... HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS : otisdarko60@yahoo.com ... CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS...
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ReplyDeleteMy Name is Alan Pratte, From USA. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr OTIS DARKO has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex WIFE to me with his great spell, I was married to this woman called Sharon we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to make her pregnant for me and also give her al she needs she left me and told me she can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get her back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com then you won't believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost WIFE back, and after a month she became pregnant for me because he gave me some herbs to take also and when she went for a test and the result stated that she was pregnant am happy today am a FATHER of a baby girl, thank you once again the great DR OTIS DARKO for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:
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ReplyDeleteMy Name is AZIBA OLUBOISE. I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called otisdarko60@yahoo.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS... I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO... WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS; otisdarko60@yahoo.com ......HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY ... CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL: otisdarko60@yahoo.com.
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ReplyDeleteWe all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Otis Darko to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don’t want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Otis Darko to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Otis the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Otis Darko with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Otis Darko asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don’t know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Otis Darko was that the told me the out come of the election before the election date last years because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can’t give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email: otisdarko60@yahoo.com if you are asked for material to do the spell don’t go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be.
I am Maria David from Spain When I eventually found testimonies about this spell caster DR OJEKERE how he helped many people to get their lovers and broken homes back,I read on how help some get pregnant, Lottery, even heal any type of disease i contacted him through his email address greatestlovespelltemple@gmail.com because my boyfriend whom i really love with all my heart and also love me too, but suddenly change and turned his back on me and hated me with passion I was absolutely desperate to get my boyfriend back. Life without my boyfriend was a real mess for me and my parent I wanted a dramatic change and I thought magic could be the solution. After discussing the resolution with DR OJEKERE, he gave me hope that he will restore my relationship back because he already engaged me. I felt confident that he will actually make my boyfriend to return home and he did! It’s fantastic what this great spell caster have done for me, his help is priceless! I don't know what I would have done without DR OJEKERE. did his job so well he is organized and highly functional, i believe he is the best spell caster i can count on when it comes to all kinds of spell, I was floored that his spells worked, if you need help, contact he via email:Again his email address is greatestlovespelltemple@gmail.com I assure you things will turn around for you
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My name is Midred Jackson from Michigan I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in November 28th 2015 last year on a business summit. i ment a man called DR OTIS DARKO. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address: otisdarko60@yahoo.com
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I want to share my great experience to the whole world about how i got my lover back. I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Lord Alika for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.co.uk a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 months now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. Lord Alika released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I'm writing this testimony right now I'm the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that's why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to Lord Alika for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, she will definitely help you too. lordalikaspelltemple@yahoo.co.uk or http://lordalikaspelltemp8.wix.com/http call him +2348072718865
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(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
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(4) You want women/men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child/PREGNANCY SPELL.
(6) You want to be rich.
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
yours forever.
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