This was an interesting blog post tweeted to me about why someone might stick with a sociopath even when no one else can understand it. I can understand that, but should people feel obligated to stick with a sociopath?
I have no choice but to deduce his behavior to his environment, both past and present. Has he really been able to change his destructive behavior and simply chosen not to? It's no more of a choice for him to remain sociopathic than it is for me to remain compelled. We are what remains. Are we to just walk away from one another because of our flaws? I am a little crazy. I sure am glad no one's really walked away from me for that. My father walked away from my crazy mother and it cost her her life. Why does all the literature to date advise a no contact declaration in terms of sociopathic personality disorder, when perhaps those of us who love them, our parents, our children, our friends, our partners should rather be advised of the proper tools in handling a loved one with a specific medical condition.
I have no choice but to deduce his behavior to his environment, both past and present. Has he really been able to change his destructive behavior and simply chosen not to? It's no more of a choice for him to remain sociopathic than it is for me to remain compelled. We are what remains. Are we to just walk away from one another because of our flaws? I am a little crazy. I sure am glad no one's really walked away from me for that. My father walked away from my crazy mother and it cost her her life. Why does all the literature to date advise a no contact declaration in terms of sociopathic personality disorder, when perhaps those of us who love them, our parents, our children, our friends, our partners should rather be advised of the proper tools in handling a loved one with a specific medical condition.
ummmm this is a chemical bond. Sucks but it happens to everyone, and we're fucking stuck for a couple years because nature is evil, until the chemicals die down. When it's all said and done, you'll hate PD's. Trust me, I know. I got stuck to a borderline, and his destruction turned my life upside down. He was a lawyer. I should send him that book Hard to Love: Understanding and Overcoming Male Borderline Personality Disorder, hahahahha. Anyone with a PD needs help, and needs to take responsibility for their behavior. That's the reality. Doesn't matter how you feel about empathy, the majority of people want to see it demonstrated.
ReplyDeleteI know with my own pd I try to surround myself with empathetic, compassionate people, and become them. I try to adopt their perspective on life. It works for awhile, and even feels good, but then there starts to be a break down in cooperation, and I wanna stab em in the head. Sucks. Then I end up on sociopathworld.
DeleteAnon1256, I believe you are on the right path seeking empathetic, compassionate people. Before the break down in the cooperation occurs, try and let them know who you are and how it works in your head. They most likely expect you to function like they do and this is just not the case. Understanding is key for them if you want to have long term relationships, and it really is a paradigm shift. Tell them your expectations of them and what they can expect from you. With a bit of luck some of them will understand and you could get an actual friend that likes you for who you are and not for the mask you are wearing.
DeleteSome sociopaths on this site have said love is a verb for them. It is something they do, not something they feel. Seems to fit. Maybe it is a good way of explaining it, that you have to constantly remind yourself to behave in a friendly or loving way, that it is not natural to you. Some will freak out for sure, or will not believe you. But it might be worth trying and letting SW know! Good luck.
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Hello
ReplyDeleteLet's start a list of recommendations for dealing with a PD.
ReplyDelete1. Call them on their shit. The more they get away with, the more they will try.
Give them an inch, they will try to take 3 miles. Then bitch that you never give them an inch...
Firm boundaries are your friend.
2. Don't be a pussy.
No passive aggression. It's annoying. They are not mind readers and being passive aggressive will only make them see you as a weak bitch. Especially if you are a man.
I don't think it's possible to respect a man who acts like a weak bitch.
3. Be honest.
Don't try to outplay them. They will most likely see through it. Then they will make you cry for it later.
4. Make yourself valuable to them.
If you are valuable, they are much more likely to behave better towards you.
I love it.
Deletelol me too O & W :P
DeleteThis is very useful, but for #4, what happens when somebody becomes sick or disabled (temporarily or permanently)? the same can go for you, if you become sick you'd like someone to be there for you too even if you're not "useful"... thoughts?
DeleteCan someone tell me why a psychopath/sociopath wants to be in a relationship?
DeleteI was addicted to one before I realised my entire family, except me, are sociopaths. I treated them as I would treat any person, assumed they had different characters to me, and that they had issues. I worked around it, expected nothing back and encouraged them for the good they did.
Research on websites tells me sociopaths seek relationships as a mask for what they are. But I never saw my family giving a shit what people thought. I thought they did it because they actually loved (or in the correct terminology, approved of and enjoyed immensely) the company of their companion. I thought that the marriage was pretty good because they seemed like best friends. Who enjoyed fighting and drama, but ultimately, needed each other.
I am super super empathic and always saw good in them and they did their best for me.
The guy I fell for, I read him in the way that I had learned to read the only people around me. I saw love. He of course moved on quickly but if I see him now I know I still am important to him and not in the way that he wants to hurt me. It's almost like he's accepted the differences between us but I don't know if I imagine it but there is a deep longing inside each of us to be able to play that role, he as my man and me as his woman. When I am with him, I feel that is the role I am destined to play. It's the only one I know how to play.
I cut off my family because of the abuse and feel such a deep depression without them. I can't stand normal people because I've been raised not to act like a dramatic idiot. I only know the sociopath way. I love so much about it. But they always fall short because they are narcissists. They miss information or are not willing to do tasks that would achieve what they want.
I God dammit have all of the same traits. Maybe that's why I love this guy. I feel like nobody will ever be able to understand me like him. Nobody will want to have kids with me when they know I have the sociopath gene. I've been targeted by other colleagues and wanted to die. I don't want my kids doing that to someone.
I guess I need closure.. I felt like although he didn't attach to me in the traditional way, he changed his behaviours around me. Surely that is his way of saying he wants me to be near?
Certain type of women have something in them that´s eager to save/reform hopeless cases, its a "classic" really. They´re attracted to scum and pays a heavy price for this. But they seem to think they´ve have accomplished something. Dunno what. Maybe they are just into s/m, at least the latter part? The scumbag remains the same..
ReplyDeleteIt's called "commitment and consistancey." People don't like to admit they're
ReplyDeletewrong. And just "giving up" on a person is a kin to waffling. That's why "hope
springs eternal" and people desperately try to see the best in others. Denial,
in other words.
Well, I wish I could say this is great and go for it with all your heart. I promote understanding of sociopathy around me and practice it as well. But it is my belief that this person is in trouble. The writer's mother died after she was abandoned by her husband, presumably of a broken heart or through suicide.
ReplyDeleteIt looks like the same thing is happening to the writer. Sociopaths do not form bonds the same way normal and empaths people do. It is very easy for them to step away from a relationship and unfortunately, they enjoy seeing the person they left self destruct. I understand the bond the writer feels. It is almost like you have to double up to fill in the void on the other side. It is exhilarating. But very dangerous.
"It is exhilarating. But very dangerous."
DeleteIf you are are an obstetrician, or a midwife, as the child is born and starts howling, say to it, "It is exhilarating. But very dangerous.
Make up your mind now. Choose to live in the 21st Century? Or turn around and crawl back into the womb before it's too late."
Suckers.
You have a good point ra. The questions the writer should ask herself/himself is "am I emotionally and psychologically strong enough to endure a break up?" How about socially, financially, professionally? Also, will the writer be able to determine if or when their life becomes unbearable and be in a position to initiate the break up?
DeleteIf the answers to those questions are yes, or even maybe, then by all means. Life is short and putting yourself outside of your comfort zone can be fun, especially if you are a bit of a masochist. But you would not jump out of a plane unless you had a parachute, or scuba dive to 60+ meters with a half empty tank unless you had suicidal thoughts to start with. Same concept here. Yes do it - it is exhilarating, but be aware of the dangers and be prepared. Most people I know cannot even handle a sociopath as a friend or a co worker. Especially after having been "targeted" by the sociopath. They get very emotionally uncomfortable and tend to avoid contact as much as possible.
Let's face it, there is a good chance the sociopath will get bored of a groupie who is emotionally (hence chemically) dependent on him/her. Thoughts?
O&W, “thoughts?”, It’s hard to compare all the socios vs. all the empaths. Some of the empathy deficient people that I have come across (e.g this blog owner), are also almost schizophrenic and are so much into their own fictional world that even if you 100% ignore them, they still cast for you - creating a fictional doll of you among their many other dolls. I think majority of them stalk their targets online, since they can’t form a meaningful relationship in real life (following their target’s I.P activities, on line circles, face book status/on line likes-dislikes…). You have a choice always to either ignore them, shut down all your online activities, or if you are curious, you can step into their playground- a very dangerous place to explore. So, in one word, yes the wisest thing is to AVOID them, since they only understand their own “language”, and they don’t fuck off easily. This was just my online experience, god save those who have them in their real life.
Deleteoh please everyone hacks. Better get comfortable with complete transparency. It's not my thing. Doesn't interest me in the least to go through people's crap, but the government sure doesn't mind doing it, and neither do a lot of other people. I'm a total troll though :P I like to be mean to people on the net :P Figure I can tell that to a site full of trolls.
DeleteI've read up a fair amount on PD's of all kinds, and I don't really think I have an answer. I don't really understand romance, sex or love at all, and romance involving PD's just makes it even more confusing.
ReplyDeleteTroubled people are attracted to each other maybe? I've heard a lot of Borderlines become quite attached to partners wit sociopathic traits. They both get some kind of pleasure out of it. Maybe it'll blow up their faces eventually, but a lot of "normal" romances seem to end up like that anyway.
I'd say if there's enough understanding between the couple about each other's issues and disorders, then maybe there's a way to make it work. Maybe crazy is only compatible with crazy? Then again, I don't really consider sociopaths to be crazy.
Maybe it's much more likely a PD couple will just rip each other to shreds.
Maybe an ideal partner for a sociopath would be a much more stable confident person who knows how to stand up to the socio and even challenge them?
I think about this kind of thing sometimes before simply throwing my hands up and saying "fuck it, let other people deal with this romance nonsense". I just avoid these kind of things and it seems to work okay for me.
Happy Valentines Day :)
ok I was cool with the whole happy Friday the 13th, but I dunno bout this valentines nonsense. I'm staying with my dad for a bit, and he's a total romance sap, and I've been subjected to him watching Lifetime all morning. It has been psychological torture. In case ur wondering how I'm related to someone like this, all my ugly genes come from my mom's side....umm.... uhhh....we're just irish ;)
DeleteThe Friday the 13th thing was in earnest. The Happy Valentines thing was just a bit sardonic on my part. Naturally I'm not a fan of this whole romance game.
Delete@Caitlyn: Props for using the word "sardonic." I don't hear it often enough. I'm not a big fan of the greeting card holidays and I'm really cynical where we're expected to spend lots of money (xmas).
Delete@Anon: I'm gonna call you "Cookie" - I think it's appropriate. Before my dad passed, he spent the last couple of years alternately watching Fox News and his DVD of Dirty Dancing - the couple of weeks I spent packing him up and moving him was unpleasant for many reasons, but the background chatter from the TV was like a dick in my ear.
People do interesting things in their declining years -
why cookie
Delete"People do interesting things in their declining years."
DeleteHahaha, Harry. No kidding. Grandma, a fervent Christian racist, talked about Indian Joe's schlong in her dementia. I don't know whether he was someone from her hidden past, or a repressed figment from her subconscious. Then there's dad . . . but that's another tale.
I'll call you Mr. Softee.....becaaauuusee.......he was crazy, and eventually got shot in the head https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUktJCmhxVI
DeleteYou can call me whatever you want Cookie - you Iceman obsession is a dead giveaway.
DeleteA dead give away of what?
DeleteLOL!!!
DeleteHappy Valentine's Day, SW.
ReplyDeleteI got the feeling nobody here has a valentine, but, hey, no problems. Gotta save these people from us, right? This is one way, keep away, especially on Valentine's Day.
Has anyone seen 50 Shades of Grey?
Sceli, I have a valentine! So does ra, right ra? I am going out tonight and celebrate with friends. We usually play games centered around very personal questions. Perfect day to do that.
DeleteI am looking forward to seeing 50 shades with some of my girlfriends. But at least 2 if them will not join us! Not everybody's taste!
How about you Sceli, have you seen it? Did you read the books?
Hope you enjoyed the day w your valentine, O&W.
DeleteYes, I've seen 50 Shades of Grey. I was curious if they'd be able to pull it off, and I actually believe they did a pretty good job. I was not turned on for a second (maybe if she were the dominant...) but I thought the two had pretty solid chemistry (not all reveiwers think so).
The cutest review I saw so far on the movie i sthis:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/style-blog/wp/2015/02/13/i-brought-a-stopwatch-to-fifty-shades-of-grey-to-time-the-sex-scenes-it-was-surprisingly-challenging/
After reading Paulo Coelho's Eleven Minutes (2005), I'm done with reading about s&m, so I paid no attention to the books, which sounded like watered-dowm versions of Eleven Minutes to me.
Some parents so deserve to be jailed for their parenting... Her is from Coelho's life according to wiki:
Delete"Paulo Coelho was born in Brazil[2] and attended a Jesuit school. As a teenager, Coelho wanted to become a writer. Upon telling his mother this, she responded with "My dear, your father is an engineer. He's a logical, reasonable man with a very clear vision of the world. Do you actually know what it means to be a writer?"[2] After researching, which was common for him since he was a policy debater when he was in high school, Coelho concluded that a writer "always wears glasses and never combs his hair" and has a "duty and an obligation never to be understood by his own generation," amongst other things.[2] At 17, Coelho's introversion and opposition to following a traditional path led to his parents committing him to a mental institution from which he escaped three times before being released at the age of 20.[3][4] Coelho later remarked that "It wasn't that they wanted to hurt me, but they didn't know what to do... They did not do that to destroy me, they did that to save me."[5] At his parents' wishes, Coelho enrolled in law school and abandoned his dream of becoming a writer. One year later, he dropped out and lived life as a hippie, traveling through South America, North Africa, Mexico, and Europe and started using drugs in the 1960s"
Solo por tu amor
Deletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tf3VMqnLJOY
Sceli, I had a good time with my valentine and with our friends, thank you for the wishes.
DeleteGoing to see 50 shades with 4 girlfriends tomorrow.. I liked the book not just because of the sex but also because of the emotions and the psychology behind the story. It sounds like most people see the woman in the book as submissive. But she is only submissive during sex, and has a safe word she can say if it becomes unbearable, or simply unenjoyable... so really she is the one with all the power.
One can debate a long time who has the power in an s&m relationship. I agree with you that it's a ying-yang, both have power and both can lose power. To me if I'm healthy and powerful in my life I'm very healthy and happy just making love.
DeleteCurious to hear what you thought. Do share later.
S&M by definition is not making love, it either decouples sex and love or it's love of codependents of a particular sort. Huge turn off for my purposes.
I'd rather watch animals make love and be true to their nature, say lizards, or ducks (both look kind of rugged, but so natural and beautiful), instead of some weirdos using tools, leaher outfits, role-playing... Looks pathetic to me, I probably couldn't stop laughing first kicking his ass next.
I did not like the movie. The books were good but the movie was disappointing. No character development. Weak lead on the male side of the equation. Just blah.
DeleteI agree. Please meet the sad and lonely Mr.Butcher (also known as Faust/HL H/abc/many names…works part-time here.) at https://plus.google.com/u/0/103329431027032618539/posts
ReplyDeleteHe’s been non-stop stalking my profile… I tested him with a couple bananas; man… loved it, jumped 50 feet high. He said, he’s been eating his own/his friends shit for sooooo long, never could quite kill his prey… even has cut himself, hates his last name too. So, be nice, sympathize/empathize with him…or just give him another banana or something… And tell him Happy Valentines Day :)
Thank you !!!
lol he cuts himself?
DeleteLooks like Smartie went off her meds again...
DeleteHLH, Don’t be mean, just say hi to him ;) https://plus.google.com/103329431027032618539/posts
DeleteActually, I think this is Cookie - not SS. So, Cookie, who is this poor fucker? Someone that needs to be convinced to cut their wrists?
Deleteapparently he already cuts himself.
DeleteSo, he's not doing a good enough job of it?
Deleteno, he needs some more help...will you help him? ;)
DeleteThanks NA - when you're right you're right.
DeleteBeing as I prefer the company of "peers," most of the women I've been serious with have been "on the spectrum."
ReplyDeleteIn fact, I would say that my "best" relationship was with a gal that was clearly ASPD/BPD. We only split up because I wanted kids and she didn't (and we were kind of bored with each other). It was as easy a break up as they come and we are still good friends to this day.
Having said that, it took about a year of "wild rides" to reach an equilibrium (and even then, things could get stormy). But, we understand each other -
I get that from the OP's blog posting (you have to read the whole post for this to make sense). What made that relationship work is that we got to a point where "the masks" weren't necessary - we could let it all hang out, as it were.
When I read ME's book, I recall her saying that PD's either need to be with another PD or with an "uber empath." This makes all the sense in the world to me - though I don't have the "stomach" for extremely empathic types - they exhaust me. Being with another person that experiences the world in a similar way is nice - we don't have to explain ourselves to each other and we don't have to worry about the motivations of each other. We get it.
But, building the mutual trust and respect can be a hairy experience and isn't for the faint of heart. I think, this is beautifully illustrated in the scene from the Matrix where Neo meets Seraph for the first time - they fight and when Neo asks why they had to fight, Seraph responds, "you don't really know someone until you fight them." (I know I've harped on this before - it's one of my favorite scenes *shrug*)
For me, for better or worse, working through a few good knock down drag outs is the way to get to know what someone is really about - what they are capable of when the chips are down...and for them to know what they are getting into with me.
Once Ma and I finally do untangle our lives and move on it's not unlikely that I'll end up with another PD - probably someone with kids. That suites me just fine - but they will have to be aware of their condition now - that's new...maybe we won't have to fight...that would be...interesting...
Happy VD!!!
Happy Valentine's Day SW!
ReplyDeleteLove is "To bleed willingly and joyfully."
From Gibran's The Prophet
I'm chock full of vitriolic hate. This site isn't enough. Any other evil sites someone can recommend to get my evil fix? ;)
ReplyDeletejus went to sociopath community...that was pretty good
Deletewhat's your user name?
Deleteyeeey you're on there too? :D What's yours?
Deletetake a wild guess...
Delete@Damaged: One more time and it'll become a running joke. LOL!
DeleteMy user name on there is HLHaller ;)
Delete@HLHaller: I'll do anything for a laugh. :P
Delete@Anonymous: Tease!
Damaged, I think you should practice more compassion and kindness. Stop being mean to HLHaller.
DeleteI see you on there too, use some sunscreen: https://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/6269601303/?rb=1
DeleteI have compassion for you too anon 11:07. You were badly abused as a child, and that's why you now feel the need to be mean to people. I understand.
DeleteI'm on the forum. It's a hoot. :D
DeleteI'm on the forum. It's a hoot. :D
DeleteOh Damaged - you are such a meanie!!! Stop it! Stop It! STOP IT!!! *eyes rolling"
DeleteHave fun with the name on the site - I don't post anywhere but here with it. Let me know how it goes -
Next time I'll use "Dread Pirate Roberts." That would make more sense...
DeleteHello, I have a question
ReplyDeletewut
DeleteCan u answer it?
ReplyDeleteI saw a comment about saying fuck it and going to Vegas, was that directed towards me
ReplyDeleteI dunno bout vegas but you should go to sociopath community
DeleteWhy?
ReplyDeletefunner
DeleteI just got hit on by some guy, and was talking about wanting a long term relationship. He seemed nice, but I decided I didn't want to hurt him. I didn't want to burn and destroy him so I let it go. I wonder if a socio has ever had that kind of thought?
ReplyDeleteI don't even get what these sites are about. Like, do u get any entertainment from posting on here?
ReplyDelete"Like, do u get any entertainment from posting on here?" unfortunately
DeleteSo what do u want then, something more casual?
ReplyDeleteI think u missed the point entirely
DeleteSo clarify it for me
ReplyDeletedidn't wanna traumatize him cuz he seemed like a nice guy...wtf does that have to do with monogamy, ployamory, sexual liberation, one night stands, or any other dumb ass thing you can come up with
DeleteI think u missed the reason I asked the question. ( and it wasn't to pass judgement )
ReplyDeleteAfter being in relationship with emma for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: drobehiinegbedionspellhome101@outlook.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL
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There is no such thing as sex. The stork brings boys. Girls come from
ReplyDeletethe cabbage patch.
Sex is sold to sell items. But no one REALLY has it. Just as no one REALLY
wins the lottery. Why be jealous of something that doesn't exist to begin with?
Ok do u wanna sell some items with me?
ReplyDeleteI've been publically shamed. Just makes me feel famous. A couple years later after one particular incident, I psychologically tortured her, and scared her pretty bad, but hey, sometimes that's gonna happen.
ReplyDeleteYou two should get to know one another, but I suggest you might want to read this both, so it's a successful investment for both of you and you enjoy it. As borderlines, ( like myself) we can sometimes sabotage things that can be a great adventure to explore. ;)
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How ya doing my gingerbread gal? Been a while. . :D
ya'll need some help
DeleteLearning a lot about anarchy? ;)
DeleteIt's a small pathological world isn't it.
DeleteHey Trevs, wanna come to America and see our wonderful gun collection? i'll keep repeating to myself that Hindz isn't worth 25 to life.
DeleteLol, honey I ant talking about Mr. Hindz. ..I shoulda clarified better, I'm talking about you and HL getting together if you guys are interested too. ;)
DeleteTrevy splits on anything that's good for him eventually. I've never heard him apologize once or take responsibility for his crazy projection shift-blaming behaviour once towards me. Its everybody elses fault - mine supposedly. He only adds me to block me again and again until his rage settles and then he's all nicey. You want him? Honey have him all ya want my cookie,, but HL is way better ( no comparison) and you can have nice conversations with HL -- unlike Mr. Hindz. He's just mad with rage. I wouldn't wish that shit on any gal. The yo yo ying yang ain't worth it.
I'm just here because I have a pathological obsession with wanting to kill things. Not sure I was really looking at it as a dating site.
DeleteHmm...if you and Ma get together, I might could start worrying... ;p~
DeleteIf this is Dr. G - I set up a FB profile for HLH - set up something like, LucretiaB or something similarly suitable. We can talk smack! 8)~
DeleteI still think you're a crack up! Peace!
(FWIW - I want a romantic entanglement just now like my cat wants a bath.)
haha thanks HL, if you're serious ;) If not, then you huwt my feewing :/
DeleteIt's a sincere offer - friend me. 8)~
DeleteHe's serious do it. ;o)
DeleteHey guys, r u high?
ReplyDeleteNo. what's up? You doing alright?
DeleteWhy do you think you have an obsession with wanting to kill things?
DeleteHow's the new job? Are you enjoying it?
Yeah do ur recent posts have anything to do with me? ( I can never tell)
ReplyDeleteI haven't been on in a while. . been working quite a bit. I'm just talking to you about it now.
DeleteR u talking too me? A yes or no would do nicely because I'm confused.
ReplyDeleteYes. Is this the doc?
DeleteDoc? Like dr. J and mr. H?
ReplyDeleteDr. G I meant
DeleteWho is dr.G?
ReplyDeleteMedical examiner?
ReplyDeleteduh herrow
ReplyDeletewhere did u go?
ReplyDeleteI'm here now , just finishing up supper and dishes. Have a great night.
ReplyDeleteso are u here or not?
ReplyDeletecause I have questions
ReplyDeleteIt's a small pathological world...you know, I'm thinking there's a parody to be made here.
ReplyDeleteOkay ask away with questions? I'm here now?
ReplyDeleteIt's a world of violence, a world of tears
ReplyDeleteIt's a world of loathe and a world of fears
There's so much that we share that it's time we're aware
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small, small world
There is just one moon for some night time fun
And a smile means danger to everyone
Though the mountains divide
And you know you can die
It's a small world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small pathological world after all
It's a small, small world
You, my friend, need to pick a name and make a video of that. LOL!!!
Deletelol :D
DeleteYes, lol
Deletemy FRIEND helped me find this site but I don't know why, do u?
ReplyDeletetrevs trevs trevs...keep it real. Just be yourself. You will find it is liberating, or you'll kill something or whatever.
DeleteUm. . not sure.
DeleteMaybe you two need to get a room... ;p~
DeleteLol, you play away with Trevy doc. 8-D
DeleteI wonder if O&W is still fighting for acceptance of PD's...the poor dear
Deletedo u know me?
ReplyDeleteHL, I'm just waiting for her to get the strap on..
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Lol ;)
Joking
The thought has crossed my mind, I admit.
DeleteHell, it sounds to me like we just need a suite in a decent hotel and we are set!!!
DeleteHaha haha haha !!
Deletecant u help me out a little here
ReplyDeleteHoney take a little of medicine, get yourself a dildo and use it. In a weeks time your mind will be at ease.
DeleteWhat do you need help with?
im a male. I don't know why my friend had me find this site or what they want from me
ReplyDeletemy bad the dildo comment was for someone else I just realized
ReplyDeleteYup. Or is it you and you just feel male? Bpd's get like that. We can switch. We're not fixed, we're more fluid with our gender. ;)
Deletehow can gender be fluid. And im definitely male. And DO YOU KNOW ME?
ReplyDeleteYou feel it inside - despite anatomy. I'm female . I love men. Attracted to them foremost. But secondary, sometimes I fantasize about women. It takes a special kind of women to turn me on.
DeleteI don't know you. Who are you?
See, for me, it's about the "glam" - the "equipment" isn't all that important. But I do like "girly girls." Put on the eyes; put on the pout, put on the heels (I do like heels...what can I say...) - I'm in!
DeleteI'm a "butch" - what can I say. 8)~
I think Maria Binks looks like doc. She's hot.
DeleteMaria Brinks *
Deletehaha someone else thought that about me too...funny
Deleteas much as im a feminist I luv feminine things...not sure why it has to be seen as a paradox
Deleteso since bpds swing both ways, do you guys swing both ways?
DeleteI tell my hubs I'm fluid like bisexual. Primarily I love men , secondary I can play with a women. I'm sure if I met a special gal I can swing that way. But I've never tried it; just fantasized :)
Deleteokay then u cant help me. Im no one, I was just hoping that since my friend had me find this site that they (or ppl they know) would be posting on here.
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My name is Lady Morgan,I live in USA,and I’m happily married with a lovely husband and two kids. I have a little misunderstanding with my husband about a mouth ago,and packed out from the house living me and the kids for like close to a year now,and i tried all my possible best to make sure he come back all to no avail.I speak to some friends of mine which didn't work out except for one who spoke to me about a very powerful spell caster called Dr ABOSUN who help him out with his own marriage crisis which i know of then, but didn't know how they solve the situation till now. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because of the pains i am passing through not seeing my lovely husband beside me, i have to give his advice a chance so i contacted him with his email address(drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com), i contacted him we discussed he advice me and tell me what to do. After everything he told that less than three days my husband will come begging, truly it was so surprising, then i remember that Dr BENSON advice me to accept her without grumbling, That was how my husband came back to me in peace through spell casting, since then we have being living in peace as one big happy family. One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “DR.JOHN SCOTT AT (drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com). So! My advice for you out there is to visit this same Email address,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back, then email him today to have a happy family.
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My name is Lady Morgan,I live in USA,and I’m happily married with a lovely husband and two kids. I have a little misunderstanding with my husband about a mouth ago,and packed out from the house living me and the kids for like close to a year now,and i tried all my possible best to make sure he come back all to no avail.I speak to some friends of mine which didn't work out except for one who spoke to me about a very powerful spell caster called Dr ABOSUN who help him out with his own marriage crisis which i know of then, but didn't know how they solve the situation till now. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because of the pains i am passing through not seeing my lovely husband beside me, i have to give his advice a chance so i contacted him with his email address(drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com), i contacted him we discussed he advice me and tell me what to do. After everything he told that less than three days my husband will come begging, truly it was so surprising, then i remember that Dr BENSON advice me to accept her without grumbling, That was how my husband came back to me in peace through spell casting, since then we have being living in peace as one big happy family. One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “DR.JOHN SCOTT AT (drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com). So! My advice for you out there is to visit this same Email address,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back, then email him today to have a happy family.
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My name is Lady Morgan,I live in USA,and I’m happily married with a lovely husband and two kids. I have a little misunderstanding with my husband about a mouth ago,and packed out from the house living me and the kids for like close to a year now,and i tried all my possible best to make sure he come back all to no avail.I speak to some friends of mine which didn't work out except for one who spoke to me about a very powerful spell caster called Dr ABOSUN who help him out with his own marriage crisis which i know of then, but didn't know how they solve the situation till now. I never believed in spell casting,but he convinced me and i had no choice than to follow his advice,because of the pains i am passing through not seeing my lovely husband beside me, i have to give his advice a chance so i contacted him with his email address(drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com), i contacted him we discussed he advice me and tell me what to do. After everything he told that less than three days my husband will come begging, truly it was so surprising, then i remember that Dr BENSON advice me to accept her without grumbling, That was how my husband came back to me in peace through spell casting, since then we have being living in peace as one big happy family. One of the price i was asked to pay was to tell it to people around me that problems like this,can always be solved by “DR.JOHN SCOTT AT (drjohnscottmagicspell@gmail.com). So! My advice for you out there is to visit this same Email address,and tell him your problems too,if you are in any condition related to love issue or getting your ex back, then email him today to have a happy family.
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ReplyDeleteTHANKS TO DR BENEDICT FOR SOLVING MY PROBLEMS
An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Andy Sowers,i live in Australia,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster DR benedict. So.
So,if you are in a similar problem or any kind of problems you can also contact him via his email(benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}he is the solution to all your problems and predicaments in life.his email again is{benedictsolutioncentre@gmail.com}.
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I had doubts about magic spells after purchasing many spells that never worked and actually decided to never buy a spell again. I have tried different casters.. Some of them never answered me after I paid and were obvious scammers, some really cast a spell but for some reason it didn't work. Then I saw a video on youtube with a person who was mentioning she had results with DR, Anita. Despite the suspicions I had her site looked real so I gave spells a last try. It's probably the best decision I ever made in my life because it worked and my boyfriend came back with me After I broke up with my ex I spent a lot of time wishing that I could just turn the clock backwards.He helped me do just that. In fact our relationship feels like the break up never even happened. We have never been this happy or passionate, all thanks to mama anita. If you're looking for a good spell caster look no further, MAMA ANITA surpass all other spell-casters, you can contact her straight o(mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com) mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com
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ReplyDeleteI am Mrs Theresa Wallcott Owen, from mexico. My life became devastated when my husband sent me packing, after 17 years that we have been together. I was lost and helpless after trying so many ways to make my husband take me back. One day at work, i was absent minded not knowing that my boss was calling me, so he sat and asked me what its was all about i told him and he smiled and said that it was not a problem. I never understand what he meant by it wasn't a problem getting my husband back, he said he used a spell to get his wife back when she left him for another man and now they are together till date and at first i was shocked hearing such thing from my boss. He gave me an email address of the spell caster who helped him get his wife back, i never believed this would work but i had no choice that to get in contact with the spell caster which i did, and he requested for my information and that of my husband along with our marriage pic. He also told me that i was going to pay the sum of $170 to enable him cast the spell and i sent him the money, but after three days, my mom called my that my husband came pleading that he wants me back, i never believed it because it was just like a dream and i had to rush down to my mothers place and to my greatest surprise, my husband was kneeling before me pleading for forgiveness that he wants me and the kid back home, then i gave Dr. Okirika a called regarding sudden change of my husband and he made it clear to me that my husband will love me till the end of the world, that he will never leave my sight. Now me and my husband is back together again and has started doing pleasant things he hasn't done before, he makes me happy and do what he is suppose to do as a man without nagging. Please if you need help of any kind, kindly contact Dr. Okirika for help and you can reach him via email: okirikaspiritualhindustemple@gmail.com
BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL ISAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $180 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $180 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mama.anitatruelovespell@gmail.com)
ReplyDeleteAn amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my husband back to me.. My name is Olivia Phimzile,i live in Florida,USA,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring husband ,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my husband .so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce.he said that he never wanted to stay with me again,and that he didn't love me anymore.So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and he confirmed it that he has made his decision,and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband .So i explained every thing to him,so he told me that the only way i can get my husband back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for him too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the email address of the spell caster whom he visited.{supremetemple@hotmail.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address he gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my husband who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same email supremetemple@hotmail.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Dr PAPA for bringing back my husband ,and brought great joy to my family once again. {supremetemple@hotmail.com}, or call +27799527702 Thanks.
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