For dealing with sociopaths/personality disorders:
Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
Verbal Abuse
Children with personality disorders:
Accountable Kids reward system
Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You
Verbal Abuse
Children with personality disorders:
Accountable Kids reward system
hi, ı am a psychopath. ı dunno what is the difference betaween psychopath and sociopath though. every test told me ı was a psychopath. ı dont feel emotions including love, emphaty, sadness(ı feel regeret and pity but not direct sadness) shame lonlyness anger or envy. ı am capable pf fear. ı liked to srangle kittens as a chield. and ı still like to hurt animals and play with peoples emotions. (this makes me look like satan!) whatever what am ı? is there anyne like me? and how can ı lve with this?
ReplyDeleteWell I'm the same way. I lie alot almost all the time. I've tortured animals I don't like and I've done alot of drugs. I've stolen many things in my life, from my friends and family. I can be very violent if the situation is ''right''. Like I can't just punch or start hitting somebody on the street for no reason, people won't tolerate that but if for some reason I was protecting someone or if nobody was looking and there wouldnt be no consequences I take those opprotunities.
DeleteSee the thing is when you write about ''feeling'' the thing is that you don't even feel the things you feel. You think you feel them but you actually don't, and that's what confuses you. You think you have emotions but its just an illusion to your own mind. You do things because you know you won't get in trouble. You act how you have to act to not ''be noticed''. All I can tell you is to be aware and to be careful and lookout for yourself.
DeleteSincerely,
Your friend, your unknown helper and someone like you
Sincerely,
A Sociopath
*I don't know what the difference is between a psychopath and a sociopath though. every test told me I was a psychopath. I don't feel emotions including love, empathy, sadness (I feel regret and pity but not direct sadness) shame, loneliness anger and envy. I am capable of fear. I liked to strangle kittens as a child. and I still like to hurt animals and play with people's emotions (this makes me look like Satan!) what am I, Is there anyone like me, and how can I live with this?*
DeleteEvery test has also told me that I am also a psychopath as well. Though I've never had the urge to harm animals. I find that to be very distasteful. However I do enjoy grooming animals and people into loving me. I am somewhat sadistic toward other people. Though it's usually something that I keep hidden.
Delete@ASociopath - We can feel emotions. But we also have control over our emotions, unlike empaths.
DeleteTo answer your question about psychopath vs sociopath... Sociopaths do not feel empathy, psychopaths do not feel remorse.
Your description of yourself suggests you are not a psychopath after all...but a sociopath. Since we can choose who to be at any time...it is difficult for a test or psychologist to properly diagnose our personalities.
Sincerely,
Anonymous
There are lots of us and as long as you always calculate and plan sadistic acts you will be fine. Make a mistake and you might go to prison. PETA and such are powerful groups. Also living like that is no big deal, its just the way you are. Embrace it and don't try and become something you're not. That can end up in serious mental disorders and anguish. Think of it as a mental handicap that you cannot be as emotional as some other more emotional people out there.
ReplyDeleteA handicap? You can bet top dollar many, if not most, Fortune 500 CEOs are sociopaths.
DeleteBut on the other hand, it is difficult to maintain long term relationships with empaths.
definitely difficult to maintain LTR's. I find watching "chick flicks" and mimicking what they do emotionally (yuck!) works, for a while when with someone. It does get boring. Then I lose interest, and move on.
DeleteA lot of the early posts in the archives at The Darkworker Experiment [darkworkers dot com] could possibly be of great help.
ReplyDeleteI don't really know what I am. I feel emotions, clearly not to the same extent as other people and I don't think I've ever felt empathy for someone. I don't like hurting people or animals, don't really see the point in it. But I do love toying with people and manipulating them. Had a friend in school who I made incredibly jumpy and paranoid without once hurting him or him even realising I had caused it. Most people bore me and I find them to be too predictable and... well normal. I've felt sadness, anger, happiness (I think) and I am typically a very anxious person although I had it very well most of the time, which has put me off diagnosing myself as a psychopath. I've never felt bad about my lack of emotions although I have felt empty, just didn't particularly mind it as other people seem to. I currently have a girlfriend who i care for very much, more than anyone else I know (family included) however she bores me and I wouldn't trade my life for her, I am considering ending our relationship and finding a new one but I understand this is not how people who care a lot for someone should think. Feel free to comment on what you think about this.
ReplyDeleteDumbass. Why would you get rid of a perfectly good girlfriend you can fuck whenever? You'll just get bored of the next one. Dating sucks and is too much work. Fuck, really you just sound like some whiny fuck. I'd be glad to push you off a building if it would make your suffering over boredom end but I don't feel like going to jail. I have to look out for #1.
Delete*applause*
Deleteis that the best you've got faggot
DeleteHmm.. sounds interesting. You should keep the girlfriend to maintain your appearances, you don't need to care about her though. Try to put a smile on your face more to fool those around you so you don't get patronized for always looking bored. I think it'd be great if you did some test runs on your family. If you have a mother you should mask your appearance and don't talk and then kidnap her at a time that you know is best. Do some torturing to make sure you don't like hurting people, but if you enjoy it you should just cut her throat (she was probably a nagging whore anyways). Find a stray dog and kick it around and if you don't feel powerful then you're just a whiny bitch like the guy above said.
DeleteLol@ the reactionary garbage trying to lionize their being indoctrinated in society's toxic misogyny, and childish inability to maintain a functional relationship as sociopathy because it's hip.
DeleteYou people are a perfect example of the type that belong on the garbage heap of history. Or just an actual garbage heap.
I suspect your problem is you're too cowardly to date an equal.
What's depressing about all of this is that you have a blessing that a lot of us that are bound by emotions wish we could have. I don't understand why you want to fuck with the people that are already being fucked with on a daily basis by this shit hole of a world. Why don't you use your ability to make this world better...if nothing else balanced. OR you could have fun exposing all the lies in the world. Then you could make all new ones. Personally, I think the sociopaths are probably the most unintelligent creature on the Earth. The easiest thing to do is lie to someone or weave a web around someone who actually has thoughts that are guided and misguided by intuition, instincts, emotions, beliefs...see some of us here can feel the wonderful waves of happiness and love, honor and trust, loyalty and friendship. it would be nice if we didn't have to weed through the idiots that are wasting our lives with their lies and performances. But on the upside, nothing compares to the FEELING of kicking the shit out of a sociopath.
ReplyDeleteshut the fuck up bitch, nobody gives a shit.
DeleteIt isn't a choice how we act or the harm we cause. It is as natural as breathing. I promise you that you've never kicked the shit out of a true sociopath because we would kill you and not care about it. We would kill you emotionally though, first we would find out everything about you, then we hurt and toy with the ones you love to hurt you, cause you to lose your career, lose everything you love and hold dear piece by piece over a period of time. Then when you have nothing left to live for we are done with you because you have become boring boring to us... So watch your fucking mouth when you threaten us as a whole because there are different types of sociopaths, some of us truly have nothing but time to plot how to Fuck up your world and it isn't hard finding out names or address if someone over the internet even if you are anonymous... Because one thing about sociopaths we are highly intelligent... Do not ever threaten me or anyone like me again because the outcome may not be what you thought...
Deletewho probably suffered trauma or abuse, looking for ways to vent it out because deep down you give a shit. You give a shit so much that it may have consumed everything else about you.
DeleteIf your feeling foggy leap
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ReplyDeleteIn this case, what method I can do??
I know an abomination who I have to call aunt.
after my grandfather died, that abomination live in my grandfa's home but I wanna that home!
so I wanna kick abomination out from my home with big unfortune.
this friday, I will go there with my friends and that abomination said I will take one room and you can play in living room with my freidns.
If you are me, what presents we shall present to abomination?
Me not know how help make abomination go. Must be way. Make eat doggy poo poo.
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There are different types of sociopaths, some have feelings for those closest to them, some truly don't. I toy with people and make a game out of it. I do not hurt animals but it's nothing to hurt a human, I took the Dexter approach in I hurt those that have hurt others. I wear a mask to appear "normal" but I am dark and empty of most feeling. I feel anger, pain, and lust very deeply.
ReplyDeleteThis could have been pulled from my brain. It's those few feelings we have the most difficulty not being part of, biological design, survival instinct, getting something sacred out of someone. I agree with the Dexter approach. I like Nietzsche, maybe read some of his work if you haven't already. He makes a lot of sense.
DeletePersonally a 'purpose' helps me keep myself more 'normal'. Just find something to really long term devote yourself to. I think that's how CEOs are born.
I’m a sociopath. Undiagnosed but one none the less. I’ve never been afraid. Never scared, nor even remotely frightened. I think I can feel love though. But I don’t know. I get obsessions. If someone doesn’t text me back I will freak out, literally sit frozen until they text me back. If someone else, say a friend, says that the ‘crush’ likes them, I will suddenly get really jealous, but more. Everything they both do will then be analysed, and I just don’t understand it, cause I’m better than them, so why isn’t it me. I can’t imagine not winning at life, after all I have the gift so why shouldn’t I use it. To me, being a sociopath isn’t something to be ashamed of. It’s recognition of my capabilities.
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ReplyDeleteAlot of you talk the talk. I would enjoy taking you with me to see if you can walk the walk.
I don't usually post online but I'll now grace you with some of my keyboard diarrhea.
"If you are going to do something go all the way with it."
Is this a challenge?
Delete@Womenofmany...
ReplyDeleteGive up your show. Here, we can taste your synthetic bullshit. Truthfully, you couldnt manipulate a child with a campaign like that, and you know this. Just stop making a fool of yourself
Everywhere I look online I find nothing but how to spot and dispose of sociopaths. And here I find the reason why. We will be the last "born that way" "devients" to be accepted as humans with a slightly different genetic code. As long as they continue to hunt us you all would do well to not brag about raping cats and making your girlfriend crazy. Let's all try to focus on how normal we can seem much of the time. Tyvm :P
ReplyDeleteSo it occured to me by accident (someone said it as a joke while I was trying to explain why I feel different) that I'm probably a sociopath. The thing is, going off of some of these "medical" articles, I can't be. But reading what other people say about themselves, It seems pretty accurate. I DO THINK I feel some emotions, but I know for a fact I fake MOST. What's concerning me (the reason I started the conversation that led to that "joke") is that I'm not actually sure if my emotions that I THOUGHT were genuine are also bullshit. I know I've felt genuine remorse, I can remember 2 instances that I KNOW were real (because I didn't tell anyone about it, nobody was around to see my theatrics and I cried because I know I caused someone pain.) Both of these instances involve the same person. I think I feel some empathy, but I don't know if i actually do. Like I get it on an intellectual level, but I don't know that I actually FEEL IT. I know there have been some instances where I FORCE MYSELF to try to put myself in someone's shoes but it doesn't move me that. I have done a lot of grimy things "for fun" I spent a lot of time just playing games with people (basically every relationship). Occasionally I would make people stay away from me. I'd tell myself I was doing this out of some type of kindness but if I think back honestly, it's more likely that they were too easy to control or too predictable. I created chaos nd manipulated situations to make them interesting "lets see what will happen if...." I don't like people who are cruel "for no reason" I do feel rage at things that I perceive as wrong or unjust, I do try to do "nice things" for strangers. But I'm not sure what my motivation is for it. I've always been a liar, but I hate liars. I've never been faithful in a relationship but I would get I THINK genuinely angry if someone Acted as though they suspected me of anything. I have "morals" but it's not based on emotion and they get real fuzzy when it suits me. I found someone who was just like me. From the moment we met we knew it. I was in "a relationship" with him for 4 years and I was fascinated by him. by trying to destroy him. He's everything I hate and it made me NEED to be around him. I didn't love him. He didn't love me. He also hated me. But we got to be ourselves, we got to try to outwit each other. It was fun until it got boring. It's so fucking weird. idk you guys don't care lol. The thing is, I feel like I want to FIX this disconnect. I'm not okay with this. I made myself believe I had changed, because I changed my behavior, but my thought process is the same. Idk what I'm hoping to get out of this. I actually DO want to be a good person. I WANT to feel bad about doing wrong, but I don't. "Shame" is an act, unless I'm embarrassed. I do think I love, but I think it's a very selfish variation because I do turn on people I "love" very viciously if they make me angry. But I also am vicious to those who hurt the ones I "love" so there's SOMETHING there. I have a baby now. I don't want to mess her up. Idk what to do
ReplyDeleteI what i consider to be a high Machiavellian - glad to be here.
ReplyDeleteI have read her book and am also one of her students,I admire and adore her ...her predator stare,personality,style,accent,sadistic thoughts.she describes her hot for teacher situation in her book and i love when she flirts with me in class,I would be her little secret ,a real life fantasy...
ReplyDeleteAre there any resources for sociopaths to find each other?
ReplyDeleteI devoured "Confessions of a sociopath" and would like to thank you for writing this excellent book. It truly opened my eyes. I'm an empath and I have got a 25-year-old sociopath only daughter (her sociopathy has been verified by doctors and knowledgeable people and so I am not using the term lightly for any dramatic purpose). I do not judge her. I love her and always will. I just would like counsel on how to transmit this love to her, how to help her, to to be there for her without being merely exploited, squeezed like a lemon and then thrown away like a used kleenex tissue. When that happens I can take it but the problem is that she is not happy with her life. Although "Confessions" painted a very close picture of her, she lacks the structure and vision to behave gracefully in this difficult world and the result is often self-destruction. This, naturally, makes her very unhappy and frustrated. I just don't know what to do. Perhaps there is nothing to do. I shall continue to love her no matter what. A love which is not to control her or to changer her. Just love, that's all. Perhaps this message is nonsensical in which case please help me understand more. Ignorance is NOT bliss for me! THANK YOU!
ReplyDeleteI'm currently fighting a legal battle against my childhood best friend who is in prison for what he's done to me. I'm 26 and I've known him since I was 4. We saw each other on and off after my family moved away when I was 8. When I was 24 I was at work on Christmas Eve and turned around to him standing right there. I hadn't seen him since 2009. I thought maybe he'd changed from the person I knew in 2009 and allowed him back into my life. Something in my gut told me to run but this is the person who held my hand at my father's funeral when I was eight years old and my emotions overrode my logic. Things did not end well, as he is in prison and I'm seeking my restraining order since the guilty verdict was handed down. Many things have come out of the woodwork since his arrest. Like his many, many previous arrests for drugs and the fact that he's a registered sex offender. It's confusing to be standing where I am looking at the man who once was the child I played with on my family farm and I'm always looking for answers. He would admit to me that he didn't used to feel remorse, that he could turn it on and off like a light switch. That there was only a select circle of people he cared for - that I was one of them. He would always insist that he'd cared for me since we were children even though I said I didn't believe him. He never really showed emotions besides anger, but I keep replaying the time he held me close and his voice cracked as he said he loved me. I don't think I'll ever understand what I've been through with him. I know that his brain doesn't operate like mine does. That's all I know. I believe he falls under the category of sociopath/psychopath/narcissist and people like my lawyer have echoed these sentiments. This site offers some insight. Thank you. I'll never have answers to questions like, "did he ever actually love me or was it all a facade to manipulate me?" It's hard.
ReplyDeletehttps://www.amazon.com/Tricksters-Path-Sociopaths-Philosophical-Self-Discovery-ebook/dp/B06W9JQJ36/
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ReplyDeleteA chance to learn about you.
Learn to use a comma. It's a great tool.
ReplyDeleteBeing a sociopath is something that I have known for a while, like M. Thomas, it is a trait that has served me well within the corporate world of advertising. A trait that is encouraged, even groomed by those that see its value. Having the ability to feel no remorse as one navigates to the top, is crucial to not only surviving, but winning.
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ReplyDeleteI think iam a sociopath ;and I want to talk to someone who is like minded. I have a million questions and very few answers.
ReplyDeleteHello.
ReplyDeleteI've read all your disgusting books.
I am also one of those socially respected patrollers.
Whether you're a man, a woman, or a loner,
I don't know, but your article was your excuse from beginning to end. Especially, in the last part of the book, Socio Pass was not just a harmful object to society, but a way to adapt itself to it with training.
birth, survival strategies are determined by genetics. Just as a man or woman is determined by gender, so is the survival strategy in the brain.
Be born.
But how do you think that he's got a sociopath
Can it be changed?
It is not something that is changed but something that is latent.
I hate little passes like you.
Because you enjoy watching others suffer.Conscience, morality and loyalty are always used as tools to use them.
Like the theory of natural selection of genes, the sacchio pass may someday die out.
Because the genes of normal people who adapt to sociophobia, like i am, survive.
Of course, they can not live only with each other.
If they get a chance, they can feel each other like animals and eat each other ...
You will commit betrayal, murder, when your best friend, family, or children around you lose interest. That's who you are.
Normal way of saying it's a monster.
forever bye, Monster!
And to add to that,
I have observed the Socio Pass group.
Their actions were designed to create a frenzy of petty profit.
I felt like a worthless fellow. It's like today bug
Acting or not, I felt ugly and dirty.
I guess the more I see them, the more I want to step down and kill bug.
I think I'm a psychopath according to your book, although it seems to me that true psychopathy is a bit different. I also don't care about other's feelings. In fact, why should I care? Sometimes I do care about other's feelings, but just in order to play them for my benefit. Everyone does that. We do it consciously and on purpose, though. ...everything seems too American, i.e. too naive. All Chinese are sociopaths then? )))
ReplyDeleteI have all if not more traits than a borderline & yet feel no empathy. Go through plenty of "rage" episodes as well.... I've often mimicked others to feel more popular or liked. I also, as read above use to strangle and suffocate my cats. Then I'd only cry to get out of the situation typically. All relationships go to shit, never held long terms of employment and I've never been on my own it's from one person to the next. I need some help. This is only self diagnosis to try and help myself through videos and educational materials found on web. Other words of wisdom might help. I know its short. But its just the tip of the iceberg.
ReplyDeleteCan you be mildly sociopathic? I am not sure I am a sociopath. The only thing I am certain about is that I have no guilt or ever experienced guilt. But the other stuff I am not sure about, I am not sure whether I am fooling everyone, including myself. I did do things like threaten people with a gun when I was young, and eventually talked myself out of it with the police even fooled my lawyer, I can be quite impulsive. But I don't know, I don't really feel sociopathic. Could it be possible that I am very low on the spectrum? Like very low... My background includes a lot of freak accidents and the messed up Romanian hospital, I spoke with someone that was diagnosed with ASPD, they were also from Romania. She said that the accidents and the hospitals could have fucked up my amygdala or other neurology. So is it possible to be a very low on the spectrum?
ReplyDeleteI think sociopathy is a scale, not black and white. You can show some of the symptoms of being a sociopath, but not all of them. Also not all sociopaths are the same, there are many different types
ReplyDeleteDear ME Thomas, I admired your shameless embrace of your identity in Confessions, at the same time that felt inexpressibly threatened by it. I'm sure you've heard all of this before. I believe Confessions will become an important historical, psychological, scientific and anthropological/cultural document from our times. I would like to talk to you about a probable sociopath in my life. I mean him no harm. He views the world differently than I do... and I think that means he doesn't believe such a view exists, or has value. The nonzero sum view as the most desirable and least destructive option. The view might not have value, apart from the person who holds it, who does have value. But I didn't make it up all by myself. This coworker has put me in his sights. As you have reported. I guess at the reasons for this, but I"d like to hear your more introspective reasons for why sociopaths choose targets - to be ruined. All that I have read indicates - run. If intellectual equals can not convene on this issue - and hash out some stuff - I agree with you-- you're gonna be the bad guys, and you're going to destroy lives because it's fun. Not destroying lives is funner, but that depends on one's reward system. I would like your take on whether my coworker killed his bird out of frustration that he could not kill me. Is someone like that real? I wouldn't have believed it before. But your memoir made me question every assumption about the unifying qualities of humanity I've ever had
ReplyDeleteThese comments are hilarious, most of you sounding like a fucking animated character out of a movie. I think most of these randoms are just commenting some bullshit to feel like they are a “psycho”, because they have nothing in their miserable lives to do. Pretending to out themselves. Half of you make sense, the other half of you are having a fucking identity crisis. Accept who you are and move the fuck on. All of you fucking softies expressing what you “don’t feel” is so fucking funny. It’s clear that only fucking fakes come to admit what they “do” as a “sociopath”. Like someone else said, if you talk the talk, walk the walk.
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